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    Re: For men only

    Quote Originally Posted by Peter King View Post
    then on top of being dishonest, your silence would make you inhumane.
    I see it totally opposite.

    What is the "honesty" really buying? It's clearing a guilty conscience is all.

    BTW: This presumes protected sex. Anyone cheating while having unprotected sex is an idiot. Odds are pretty high he/she will catch something and pass it on.

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    Re: For men only

    Quote Originally Posted by calamity View Post
    I see it totally opposite.

    What is the "honesty" really buying? It's clearing a guilty conscience is all.

    BTW: This presumes protected sex. Anyone cheating while having unprotected sex is an idiot. Odds are pretty high he/she will catch something and pass it on.
    yes, and most drunk men who cheat on their wives with a total stranger will always insist on using protecting dream on.
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    Re: For men only

    Quote Originally Posted by Peter King View Post
    yes, and most drunk men who cheat on their wives with a total stranger will always insist on using protecting dream on.
    Odds are they will get caught when they pass the chlamydia or gonorrhea on to their mates. Anyone who is still having sex with their mates is a fool to have unprotected sex with anyone else. IMO, anyone having unprotected sex with multiple partners is an idiot.

    I figure those guys don't really care about their mates anyway. So, if they confess, it's purely to ease their consciences.

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    Re: For men only

    There was only one time I was ever tempted to cheat on my wife when I was married. I got to know a brilliant and beautiful landscape architect, and every time I saw her we were just so locked in on each other that the word "chemistry" doesn't even begin to describe it. One time she suggested we have a drink, and although I was tempted to say "yes", I hesitated for a bit and said "no". I just couldn't cross that line that I know had such a temptation to ruin my marriage.

    Of course, if I had known then what I know now I just might have said "yes", but that's another story. What counts is that I cannot really answer the question because I cannot see myself doing it.
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    Re: For men only

    Quote Originally Posted by Peter King View Post
    then on top of being dishonest, your silence would make you inhumane.
    Why? It's only inhumane...if a spouse has a sexual experience in which they get an STD...and that leads to the other spouse getting it. Now that is a necessary reason to break the silence.

    Otherwise, the partner who cheats and feels guilty, shameful, etc...too bad...there's absolutely ZERO reason to dump one's indiscretions on the other. Talk to a therapists or spiritual leader...or anybody but the other spouse...IF YOU WANT TO KEEP A MARRIAGE. The unknowing spouse will be harmed over a senseless confession by a guilty spouse...and that is way more inhumane.

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