I don't know
I don't care
"With me everything turns into mathematics."
"It is not enough to have a good mind. The main thing is to use it well."
"It is truth very certain that, when it is not in one's power to determine what is true, we ought to follow what is more probable." -- Rene Descartes
Marriage isnt an emd all be all anymore. They end in aeperation, divorce, or volatile homes. Its a piece of paper. Being together and having gone through some struggles and good times together before kids seems much more effective. Plus I cant say Im the same person I was at 14 or even 20. People change) in 5-10 years and if your spouse doesnt change alomg with you or you grow apart with kids present and stay together, its a far worse scenario than divorce.
l am aware of the importance of a happy childhood and believe the family institution plays the most important role in a society and its improvement . a child needs both a father and a mother and marriage is not a game which you can play whenever you want .people should pay attention to whom they will marry and know what kind of things they hope to get from a marriage before making a decision .l havent married but can guess marriage needs devotion .
"Sovereignty is not given, it is taken." ATATÜRK
People should decide for themselves whether or not marriage is good for them or not. It's really not anyone else's business except for the two involved. Many people just can't work out their differences, and who is to say that is because they are "selfish" or what the reason. That is just arrogant.
And IMO "staying together for the kids" can have just as many destructive results as divorce.
The morality of abortion is not a religious belief, any more than the morality of slavery, apartheid, rape, larceny, murder or arson is a religious belief. These are norms of the natural law of mankind and can be legislated even in a completely religionless society.