That doesn't change the fact that what you are paying for is YOUR insurance. It's all well and good to complain about how insurance prices have gone up due to Obamacare. It's all well and good to complain about the individual mandate. It's not all well and good to complain about what other people utilize their health insurance for. They are paying for the same services you qualify for.
It's not their fault you do not utilize it in the same way. You aren't paying for their birth control, you are failing to maximally utilize a service you pay for.