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Following someone.

Is following someone an aggressive act?


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You may think you are being sarcastic, but it really hits home.
There are cases of people on this forum claiming they are threatened to the point of using deadly force, if someone is say, in their garage.
There are periodically cases of people, the foreign kid in Louisiana who was looking for the Halloween party, was knocking on a front door asking for directions/party and the wife got "scared" so the husband shot and killed the kid. Entirely legal there, why not in every context? I think all three are absurd personally.


I don't think the OP mentions legality, Trayvon, or whether it warrants physical violence in retaliation or not. I don't think people on this thread are suggesting being followed means you are justified in physical violence towards the pursuer. Is that your impression?

If, and only if on Martin's behalf. Then, to the extreme opposite, they claim that even if Martin physically attacked Zimmerman he has no self defense rights. As extreme of pro-violenec and anti-violence contradictions it gets.

The absurdity that Zimmerman trying to see where Marin went therefore justified Martin physcially attacking him is so far out in absurdity it isn't really a rational topic or real topic.
 
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I don't think there's anything suspicious about Martin becoming angry and confronting Zimmerman. It wa sdangerous, but it certainly wasn't suspicious.

He ran from Zimmerman. According to Zimmerman's own account of events from the 911 call we know that Martin ran. He clearly felt threatened as evidenced by his fight or flight response. When he found that Zimmerman was still following him, he realized his previously attempted flight response had failed. Instinct takes over in such situations. When flight fails, fight is all that remains.

Was it dangerous? Absolutely. When one has a fight or flight reaction it usually is dangerous.

But it's also a very reasonable biologically induced reaction on Martin's part. There's nothing at all suspicious about it.

Yes, all assaults are the fault of the victim. No one assaults anyone else unless they have been frightened into doing so. Nothing is more obvious. You know, similar to all rape victims really were asking for it.
 
Look at the damn votes. Why are liberals always threatened by everything? Frankly I'm getting a little sick of it.
American...lets say you get a phone call from your 17 year old daughter. She says "daddy, there is a man following me. Ive tried crossing the street, Ive went inside a market and waited, I ran and I stopped. I yelled at him to stop but he is still following me. Im 2 blocks from home on Miller"

What do you do? How do you feel? How do you respond?
 
American...lets say you get a phone call from your 17 year old daughter. She says "daddy, there is a man following me. Ive tried crossing the street, Ive went inside a market and waited, I ran and I stopped. I yelled at him to stop but he is still following me. Im 2 blocks from home on Miller"

What do you do? How do you feel? How do you respond?

Martin wasn't a 17 year old teenage girl. He was a 6' 3" 160 pound football player male andjuvenile deliquent punk. I think on his 3rd explusion from school for the reasons he was makes that description accurate.
 
Pretty reasonable on the whole, yes. My own risk tolerance is a little higher but then again, as you say, there is a big difference between a 110# woman with a minor disability and a burly ex-cop with plenty of experience in violence.

I convinced my mother to carry pepperspray in her later years (70s). I told her that if any stranger approached her and acted the least bit suspicious, don't just spray him hose his eyes down like watering the yard. A little ninety-pound widow woman in her seventies can get away with zero-tolerance for risk. :)

Civilized life brought many improvements, wonderful ones, to my life. But one of the things that I don't like about "civilized society" I entered about 4 years ago is the cowardice of so many of the men. The expressions - ragingly - of so many men on this forum of how totally terrified they would be at someone following them or watching them is truly disgusting to me - and all the absurdity arguments of "intimidation" really founded in such cowardice in them.

There are very few men on this forum I would trust with my children or wife in terms of danger. I think most would instead flee - maybe dialing 911 when he found a safe hiding place - maybe - and even then most would insist on not giving their name. I would trust the women on the forum for my loved one's safety more. Curiously, it was 2 women who came out on Zimmerman-Martin, not the men. The men all stayed hiding in their houses.

I've been meaning to note this for some time as the contrast is stark from my 3rd eye viewpoint.

From messages I've seen on the forum, I would trust Caine and you with my children's and wife's life in terms of safety. From so many internal clues in both your message across the forum, I somehow really believe that if in your care no man would hurt them but over your dead body. I feel that way definitely about Caine too. Doesn't mean you'd win or succeed, but you would give it your best and go down fighting for them if need be because that is what men do. I think that would be both your core instinct. Just who you are. Just like I think cowardice is at the core of so many younger men today. Then again you and Caine are of the previous generation.

I don't understand the source of the strange mix of apathy, cowardice and rudeness that make so many men today the cowards they are. Ten times quicker to rage and insult behind the safety of an ID and at their computers locked inside safely as you and Caine. 1/10th the courage in terms of the real world. They have unlimited introverted egos, but very little self pride. I doubt they understand the distinction.

I think that is what some women mean when they ask where have all the real men gone? I think many women see that distinction about men that men don't want to see about themselves.
 
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Martin wasn't a 17 year old teenage girl. He was a 6' 3" 160 pound football player male andjuvenile deliquent punk. I think on his 3rd explusion from school for the reasons he was makes that description accurate.
I didnt ask about Trayvon Martin and this thread is not about him. It is about 'following' someone. So...Im guessing you AGREE as a father you might be inclined to see it as a threatening act and one where your response, based on concern for your daughter, might be leading to at least the potential of some major medical care...correct?
 
Is following someone an aggressive act?

Simple question, simple answer.

I don't believe that it is. If it was then police would not be able to legally follow people. Investigators (PI's) would not legally be able to do it. Paparazzi would not be able to do it.

An adult following an unarmed minor and continues to follow in an isolated neighborhood in the dark ... even after the minor is running away and is not breaking any law and the person chasing gets close enough to touch the minor ... to me that is disrespecting another person's boundaries to the point of aggressive and they might get shoved, punched or kicked in the balls if they get close enough.

Sure if I follow a person for a city block and keep my distance because I think they have a cool dog and I want to watch ... that is not pressing boundaries.

If my children were walking and an adult followed them (especially in the dark in an isolated area) ... even got out of the car and continues following them when they ran and then became within arms length and it was not someone they knew I would instruct them to defend themselves. I taught my children to kick in the balls or punch in the eyes.


If that guy followed me and got out of his car and kept after me on a dark rainy night and came up to me within arms length and I would turn and kick him in the balls or try to poke his eyes out.

Now if I was walking on a populated city street and noticed him or anyone just simply at a fair distance following I would probably just be wary or move into a public store, bank or populated place until he moved on.

So depending on the time of day, the situation, how isolated the area is, how the person being followed tries to get away ... following can be an invasion of boundaries and aggressive. At some point you would need to turn around and face the person ... and stand your ground. I would have been scared to death if some big husky dude with a shaved head followed me or my children on an isolated dark area and kept chase getting out of his car. Eventually you cannot keep acting like victim and once they are on you within arms length you need to turn and face the person chasing or following.
 
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Martin wasn't a 17 year old teenage girl. He was a 6' 3" 160 pound football player male andjuvenile deliquent punk. I think on his 3rd explusion from school for the reasons he was makes that description accurate.

That's true and since he was doing NOTHING criminal or even questionable, he must have initially been very confused as to why this stranger was following him..

You KNOW when someone is coming after you because you left your glasses or a package.. You know when someone wants to hand you a religious tract.

Most people have VERY good instincts for that..
 
Context

It can be most definately considered an agressive act, or it could be seen as harmless

Imagine you are a women walking alone at night and she notices someone follow her for many blocks, even if she cuts through a couple houses yards. She also notices that the person get out of their car to continue to follow her.

If I was a woman, I would most definately consider that an agressive act, by someone out to cause me personal harm (perhap rape and murder) If I noticed that person doing that and trying to get within physical contact range, I would be deathly afraid for my life, even if that person, after being confronted seemed to be walking back to his carr. If armed I would seriously consider shooting that person
 
Is following someone an aggressive act?

Simple question, simple answer.


It is possible that your question could get answered, if the person you are following turns around and fires on you, because they had a reason to believe that their life was in danger - because they believed that you were out to kill them - because you were following them and that's what some people do in places like Florida, or Oklahoma, as just two examples.

So, if there is precedent for someone being aggressive towards you by following, and you respond by turning around the firing on them, in an attempt to protect yourself from an already established potential threat, then you might have the answer to your question - though I do not believe that it was the answer you were looking for, however.

Do you see just how quickly that whole notion can get out of control?

I hope you do. Because, if other people don't believe that such a notion can get out of control, you might just be walking behind somebody one minute and lying on the ground the next, all because that person had good cause to believe (established by precedent) that their life was in danger, all because you were following them and because such precedent has already been laid.

This is what happens when stupid people do stupid things, without thinking the consequences through to their logical conclusion.
 
I think the Mods need to create a Thread Category simply called: Paranoia.
 
I didnt ask about Trayvon Martin and this thread is not about him. It is about 'following' someone. So...Im guessing you AGREE as a father you might be inclined to see it as a threatening act and one where your response, based on concern for your daughter, might be leading to at least the potential of some major medical care...correct?

Yes, of course.
 
Context

It can be most definately considered an agressive act, or it could be seen as harmless

Imagine you are a women walking alone at night and she notices someone follow her for many blocks, even if she cuts through a couple houses yards. She also notices that the person get out of their car to continue to follow her.

If I was a woman, I would most definately consider that an agressive act, by someone out to cause me personal harm (perhap rape and murder) If I noticed that person doing that and trying to get within physical contact range, I would be deathly afraid for my life, even if that person, after being confronted seemed to be walking back to his carr. If armed I would seriously consider shooting that person

You would shoot the person in the back as that person was walking back to his/her car?
 
You have some points there, I admit, but you're putting too much burden of proof on the defense.




There is no way Zimmerman can prove he didn't provoke Martin because there are no eyewitnesses to the beginning of the physical fight.

#2 is also dubious because it involves the mental state and thought processes of a man who is dead, as well as because there are no eyewitnesses to the moment things went physical. All we know is Z told 911 he was trying to keep watch on M so he didn't get away after acting in a manner Z thought suspicious enough to call 911 about.

There is an "earwitness" account, though. Martin was on the phone with his girlfriend when things went physical. That has been confirmed by the phone records. From her testimony we can learn a lot about Martin's mental state (nervous about the stranger following him) and a little bit about how the altercation began (We know that Martin verbally confronted Zimmerman before the altercation began). We have to throw out the girlfriend's conjecture about Zimmerman pushing Martin because there is no way she could know who did the pushing based on what she heard. But we do now that her testimony contradicts Zimmerman's claims about being attacked from behind.



If you held every self-defense case to the same sort of burden of proof, a lot of innocent people would be convicted.

Actually, all self-defense cases are held to the same burden of proof I am talking about. It prevents guilty people from lying their way free. We have a contradiction in reports of how the initial confrontation went down. The more credible account is Martin's girlfriend's account because it makes sense in the circumstances. Zimmerman's account doesn't make any sense given teh facts that are known.

The only provocation we KNOW Zimmerman made to Martin was following him. Following someone doesn't give the followed person the right to physically assault them absent other signs of threat.

That's not an entirely accurate portrayal. You are completely ignoring out Martin's clear attempt to flee from Zimmerman. That's a very important fact that should not be discounted. The fact that he first attempted to flee indicates that he meant Zimmerman no harm. Zimmerman continuing to follow Martin after Martin attempted to flee does give Martin the right to physically defend himself. It goes back to biology. Fight or flight. If you remove the flight option by negating it's efficacy, you limit it to a fight response.

That's why backing any frightened animal into a corner is a guaranteed way yo be attacked by an animal. Humans are no different.

What are the requirements for self-defense? I know 'em by heart....

1. You must be without legal fault in provoking the incident. (IE you weren't doing anything illegal.)
2. You must have believed yourself to be in imminent danger of bodily harm.
3. A reasonable man in the same situation would also believe #2.

And this applies to Martin, first and foremost. It is an undeniable fact that the initiator of threatening behavior in this situation was Zimmerman.

Martin did not provoke the incident (he was doing nothing illegal).

Martin did believe himself in imminent danger (as evidenced by his fight or flight response). This is also confirmed by the girlfriend's testimony.

Biologically speaking, once flight is removed as an option, any threatened animal (including humans) will resort to fight responses. That's a perfectly reasonable response.

Martin met all three criteria for self-defense in this situation. That's based entirely on the facts. Even if we remove the girlfriend's testimony and focus entirely on Zimmerman's own words from the 911 call, we can see that Martin met all three criteria.

Martin's attempt to escape from Zimmerman is of absolute importance.

Further, the reasonable-man standard of believing yourself in danger of bodily harm is that three elements must be present: Opportunity, Ability, and Jeopardy/Intent.
-The subject must have the Ability to do you harm.... okay, both Z and M qualify in that regard.
-The subject must have the Opportunity to do you harm right NOW.... if Z was walking away from Martin, this puts Martin's supposed SD claim in serious jeopardy. Contrariwise, we have an eyewitness that Martin was on top of Z, and Z had injuries of some kind.
-The subject must demonstrate Jeopardy behaviors or Intent.... the subject must do things indicating that an attack is imminent, like cocking a fist and moving towards you, or verbally threatening and reaching for a weapon, that sort of thing. Again, we have eyewitnesses saying Martin was beating Zimmerman, but we have no eyewitnesses that say Zimmerman exhibited Jeopardy behavior towards Martin.... unless you count following him and keeping him under observation, and if that is ALL then we're REALLY opening a can of worms for people to make spurious SD claims!



Available info indicates that Martin moved to confront Z and backed off when he saw he was on the phone (to 911). Do we have any evidence that Zimmerman directly confronted (provoked) Martin? Not that I know of, other than following him, and that isn't a crime in itself, unless we start making assumptions about Z's body language or facial expression.

Again, your analysis ignores a major piece of evidence. Martin's attempt to flee, reported by Zimmerman himself. You make a major unsupported assumption as well, one that is especially ironic given the fact that you seem to be demonizing making assumptions about body language (despite the fact that most body language is both universal and predictable once the emotional frame of mind is known, as it is here for Zimmerman).

You claim, without any evidence, that the reason that Martin "backed off" was because he saw that Zimmerman was on the phone to 911. This is complete conjecture on your part. You claim one second that we cannot know Martin's state of mind, but then you say that "available info" allows us to understand his motivations.

At least my assumptions are based on known psychological phenomenon that are relatively universal (body language, fight or flight responses). Your is complete nonsense. You cannot possibly know why Martin backed off. But when you say he backed off because he saw Zimmerman on the phone, it gives the false impression that he was guilty of something. That something about Zimmerman being on the phone made Martin nervous in and of itself (i.e. that Zimmerman is calling the cops).

There's nothing wrong with making certain assumptions, but only if those assumptions are reasonable in nature. An assumption based on known biological reactions to certain stimuli, for example, is a perfectly reasonable assumptions. An assumption about motivations based on nothing but imagination, however, is not.






IMHO both Treyvon Martin and George Zimmerman are (were) a pair of overly-aggressive dipsticks who BOTH turned a misunderstanding into a homicide by their poor choices.... but I can't see convicting Z of Murder-2 simply for following someone he deemed suspicious.

I think you demonize Martin for having a reasonable biological response to a threat. Zimmerman was the instigator, that much is known.


We don't have to assume that what the shooter said was true.... but we DO have to have some kind of evidence that it ISN'T.

Exactly. And there is plenty of evidence indicating that in this case. In fact, Zimmerman's own account of events helps build a case against him having a right to self-defense.
 
Yes, all assaults are the fault of the victim. No one assaults anyone else unless they have been frightened into doing so. Nothing is more obvious. You know, similar to all rape victims really were asking for it.

I see you are more interested in idiocy and strawmen than having an intelligent conversation on this.
 
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Yes, of course.
Why? Could it be that the 'mere' act of following your daughter might be something you perceive as a 'threatening' act and you would then be fearful for her well being and disinclined to just roll with it...see if anything bad actually happens, or trust that the police could make everything all better...and in time?
 

Zimmerman got out of his SUV to follow Trayvon on foot. When a dispatch employee asked Zimmerman if he was following the 17-year-old, Zimmerman said yes. The dispatcher told Zimmerman he did not need to do that.

There is about a one-minute gap during which police say they're not sure what happened.

Zimmerman told them he lost sight of Trayvon and was walking back to his SUV when Trayvon approached him from the left rear, and they exchanged words.

Trayvon asked Zimmerman if he had a problem. Zimmerman said no and reached for his cell phone, he told police. Trayvon then said, "Well, you do now" or something similar and punched Zimmerman in the nose, according to the account he gave police.


Hmmmm..

Wonder who GZ was planning to call since the cops were on their way.........
 
There is an "earwitness" account, though. Martin was on the phone with his girlfriend when things went physical. That has been confirmed by the phone records. From her testimony we can learn a lot about Martin's mental state (nervous about the stranger following him) and a little bit about how the altercation began (We know that Martin verbally confronted Zimmerman before the altercation began). We have to throw out the girlfriend's conjecture about Zimmerman pushing Martin because there is no way she could know who did the pushing based on what she heard. But we do now that her testimony contradicts Zimmerman's claims about being attacked from behind.





Actually, all self-defense cases are held to the same burden of proof I am talking about. It prevents guilty people from lying their way free. We have a contradiction in reports of how the initial confrontation went down. The more credible account is Martin's girlfriend's account because it makes sense in the circumstances. Zimmerman's account doesn't make any sense given teh facts that are known.



That's not an entirely accurate portrayal. You are completely ignoring out Martin's clear attempt to flee from Zimmerman. That's a very important fact that should not be discounted. The fact that he first attempted to flee indicates that he meant Zimmerman no harm. Zimmerman continuing to follow Martin after Martin attempted to flee does give Martin the right to physically defend himself. It goes back to biology. Fight or flight. If you remove the flight option by negating it's efficacy, you limit it to a fight response.

That's why backing any frightened animal into a corner is a guaranteed way yo be attacked by an animal. Humans are no different.



And this applies to Martin, first and foremost. It is an undeniable fact that the initiator of threatening behavior in this situation was Zimmerman.

Martin did not provoke the incident (he was doing nothing illegal).

Martin did believe himself in imminent danger (as evidenced by his fight or flight response). This is also confirmed by the girlfriend's testimony.

Biologically speaking, once flight is removed as an option, any threatened animal (including humans) will resort to fight responses. That's a perfectly reasonable response.

Martin met all three criteria for self-defense in this situation. That's based entirely on the facts. Even if we remove the girlfriend's testimony and focus entirely on Zimmerman's own words from the 911 call, we can see that Martin met all three criteria.

Martin's attempt to escape from Zimmerman is of absolute importance.



Again, your analysis ignores a major piece of evidence. Martin's attempt to flee, reported by Zimmerman himself. You make a major unsupported assumption as well, one that is especially ironic given the fact that you seem to be demonizing making assumptions about body language (despite the fact that most body language is both universal and predictable once the emotional frame of mind is known, as it is here for Zimmerman).

You claim, without any evidence, that the reason that Martin "backed off" was because he saw that Zimmerman was on the phone to 911. This is complete conjecture on your part. You claim one second that we cannot know Martin's state of mind, but then you say that "available info" allows us to understand his motivations.

At least my assumptions are based on known psychological phenomenon that are relatively universal (body language, fight or flight responses). Your is complete nonsense. You cannot possibly know why Martin backed off. But when you say he backed off because he saw Zimmerman on the phone, it gives the false impression that he was guilty of something. That something about Zimmerman being on the phone made Martin nervous in and of itself (i.e. that Zimmerman is calling the cops).

There's nothing wrong with making certain assumptions, but only if those assumptions are reasonable in nature. An assumption based on known biological reactions to certain stimuli, for example, is a perfectly reasonable assumptions. An assumption about motivations based on nothing but imagination, however, is not.








I think you demonize Martin for having a reasonable biological response to a threat. Zimmerman was the instigator, that much is known.




Exactly. And there is plenty of evidence indicating that in this case. In fact, Zimmerman's own account of events helps build a case against him having a right to self-defense.


Ive read this entire post twice and I agree with it....one point I would like to stress...Zimmerman being told to back off and WAIT for the police to arrive by the dispatcher before the shooting took place in my mind makes him culpable to a degree...if he had obeyed the dispatcher and backed off martin the shooting may very well have never had to occur....So far I have not read nor seen any reason that zimmerman was forced to have physical contact with martin after the warning by the dispatcher.
 
Have to be 18 to legally own a handgun in florida

I thnk you're wrong. 18 to buy/own long-gun (18"); no registration, background check or proof of anything except ID required.

21 to own a handgun. I'm not sure if a permit is required, as in north carolina in Florida, but I'm sure it is registered.


Did somebody get caught stalking? :mrgreen:

Seriously...

Z chased M and drew his gun while screaming racial epitaphs...

M set the ambush up, has been perm-banned from highschool, is a member of the crips/bloods, stole the Skittles and was escaping a rape scene...





Fkn crazy people are everywhere. I mean here, at DP. Fortunately, people in this village (insert: irl) haven't heard anything about the Obama-endorsed race-War, Kim-Jong-ButtHole's failed boner, American politics, Israel, abortion, gay rights or the rest of the sht that you people completely lose your fkg minds over. /story
 
I thnk you're wrong. 18 to buy/own long-gun (18"); no registration, background check or proof of anything except ID required.

21 to own a handgun. I'm not sure if a permit is required, as in north carolina in Florida, but I'm sure it is registered.




Seriously...

Z chased M and drew his gun while screaming racial epitaphs...

M set the ambush up, has been perm-banned from highschool, is a member of the crips/bloods, stole the Skittles and was escaping a rape scene...





Fkn crazy people are everywhere. I mean here, at DP. Fortunately, people in this village (insert: irl) haven't heard anything about the Obama-endorsed race-War, Kim-Jong-ButtHole's failed boner, American politics, Israel, abortion, gay rights or the rest of the sht that you people completely lose your fkg minds over. /story

Its 18 fla state law and 21 by federal law.

What is the legal age to purchase a gun in Florida
 
I thnk you're wrong. 18 to buy/own long-gun (18"); no registration, background check or proof of anything except ID required.

21 to own a handgun. I'm not sure if a permit is required, as in north carolina in Florida, but I'm sure it is registered.




Seriously...

Z chased M and drew his gun while screaming racial epitaphs...

M set the ambush up, has been perm-banned from highschool, is a member of the crips/bloods, stole the Skittles and was escaping a rape scene...


Fkn crazy people are everywhere. I mean here, at DP. Fortunately, people in this village (insert: irl) haven't heard anything about the Obama-endorsed race-War, Kim-Jong-ButtHole's failed boner, American politics, Israel, abortion, gay rights or the rest of the sht that you people completely lose your fkg minds over. /story

You don't have to guess.. Florida gun laws are spelled out clearly on line.

GZ followed an adult black male home March 2011.. six months before NW was formed.. GZ was evidently aggressive. The homeowner complained to both the police and the HOA.
 
Anyway, following is aggressive (see my vote). I may or may not speak, given situation.
 
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