In a perfect world every mom would stay home and raise the kids but in the real world both parents often have to work. Other times though the women chooses to work for "self fulfillment" reasons. If you cant feel good about yourself raising your kids, if you need a career to feel important, don't have kids. Then theres women who need stuff. They want a bigger house and a fancier car and are willing to let others raise their kids to have more and better things. These women shouldn't have kids either.