And what do you mean by proper order? My guess (the obvious one) is that you are insisting that men should work in every case and the women must always be the one that stays home with the kids. Which was fine years ago when most jobs involved muscle power. But those are a thing of the past along with the horse and buggy. Perhaps you should go live in a Amish community, where men still treat their women like property? Or maybe the middle east?
So who exactly gets to decide what is the proper order?
I will never support any political movement that insists that the government has the power to dictate personal liberties.