I also think you're right about TV and the media. It would be nice if the mass media would be more honest as well and depict single parenthood in depressed neighborhoods for what they are; a generational trap that society at large does not pay enough attention to.
You can dance without a lawyer
"God is the name by which I designate all things which cross my path violently and recklessly, all things which alter my plans and intentions, and change the course of my life, for better or for worse."
-C G Jung
I prefer both.