true story-one of my friends was a quiet studious Jewish guy who was pretty good looking and whose whole goal in college was getting into a top medical school. Some fairly cute but pushy Long Island princess was totally smitten with him and was always after him. So he asked a few of his closest friends to let her know he "was gay" which we passed on to her with subtle inferences and conversations among ourselves that we made sure she could sort of eavesdrop on. well it worked. 15 years later, at our reunion, David was there with his really cute wife (also a doctor) and a couple kids and the princess showed up. She said to a few of us she was stunned-she figured he really was gay since he didn't bed her UNLIKE ALL THE OTHER GUYS AND GIRLS who just pretended to be gay because they thought it would make them "Cool"