when she came out she lost all of her friends, she was forced from her church and no other church in the community would allow her to join or attend, she was fired from her job. She was asked to leave some stores. She was denied a lease. She was denied a car loan. She eventually had to leave her hometown and move to a big city so that she could live in relative anonymity. This is just what I know of, I also know there are things she has not told me.