Did you just change your mind? Perhaps one or two pages ago, you explicitly said that any killing should be rightly investigated by the authorities. Therefore, any attempt, whether successful or not, to procure an abortion- an illegal homicide- should (by your logic) be investigated by the police. Attempted murder is illegal, and therefore doctor shopping for an illegal abortion is attempted murder. As you know, there are plenty of cases where doctor confidentiality is reversed, especially child abuse and other violent crimes. If you find abortion = murder, then it therefore should qualify (again, according to your logic) to a full out investigation by authorities.
And if we come back to the scenario of investigating a miscarriage, are you really content with just leaving it to a five-minute interview by a paper pusher? Don't you see how laxness of that kind of investigation? In order to really get to the bottom of a miscarriage- to really discover the cause- you have to fully examine the woman. A simple five minute questionnaire will no doubt lead many to induce their own miscarriage because they know they won't be subject to any real investigation.
And if we're talking about murder, you should really be concerned that each and every case of murder, attempted murder, and possible murder is fully and thoroughly investigated by the authorities.
I never assumed you "hate" women. But it is a safe bet to assume you would have considered criminal punishment for the woman who has an abortion, given that is the norm among the pro-life movement. You, my friend, are the minority within your own movement who believes the woman (a murderer) should be treated and not punished.