It's the unfortunate reality. I am reluctant to take the notion that some of us are gifted and others aren't, because that argument was used against me and the people I knew frequently, but I can't altogether dismiss it. Until that problem is solved, I couldn't begin to deal with the other issues. Further, some of us are more motivated than others, and I wouldn't want to neutralize that potential ambition and reward cycle because of the reality that because where some of us came from others have a better shot at "making it." Could you imagine a world in which the norm was an unexcited bore, floating through life with the expectation that regardless of what one does with their time we would be given the same?