Is it acceptable to evaluate a potential mate based on the person's wealth?
Is it acceptable to evaluate a potential mate based on the person's wealth?
The reason I'm wondering is I've learned the man I'm dating has done a financial background check on me without my knowledge. I would have answered any of his questions if he had asked. I haven't spoken with him since I found out and am trying to make sense of this.
The reason I'm wondering is I've learned the man I'm dating has done a financial background check on me without my knowledge. I would have answered any of his questions if he had asked. I haven't spoken with him since I found out and am trying to make sense of this.
Is it acceptable to evaluate a potential mate based on the person's wealth?
Is it acceptable to evaluate a potential mate based on the person's wealth?
Isn't this how it's always been?
Not so much for men, who tend to use physical appearance as a more important measure
The reason I'm wondering is I've learned the man I'm dating has done a financial background check on me without my knowledge. I would have answered any of his questions if he had asked. I haven't spoken with him since I found out and am trying to make sense of this.
Isn't this how it's always been?
Is it acceptable to evaluate a potential mate based on the person's wealth?
Is it acceptable to evaluate a potential mate based on the person's wealth?
How long have you been dating? If it's not in a relationship that's clearly leading to engagement/marriage, that seems pretty paranoid to run a financial background check. Personally, I think that that kind of an invasion of privacy would actually be a bigger problem than the fact that he might care about your money habits. I guess I can understand if he was about to pop the question, to make sure he knows what he's getting himself into...but even then it seems like doing it without your knowledge/permission probably wouldn't be the best way of approaching the situation.
But that's just me. Personally when I'm dating someone I don't really care about her wealth or income, but I would care if she wasn't responsible with money...at least if I was going to marry her.
The reason I'm wondering is I've learned the man I'm dating has done a financial background check on me without my knowledge. I would have answered any of his questions if he had asked. I haven't spoken with him since I found out and am trying to make sense of this.
The reason I'm wondering is I've learned the man I'm dating has done a financial background check on me without my knowledge. I would have answered any of his questions if he had asked. I haven't spoken with him since I found out and am trying to make sense of this.