I am a single father of two beautiful daughters that I have 50% custody of.
I pay FAR
more child support than the court mandated when assessing my salary because I wanted to help my crazy abusive ex-wife have the best opportunity to give our children the best when they are with her.
I did not have her salary assesed at all, she pays me nothing in return.
On top of child support to her, I pay for all school fees, all doctor visits, all surgery's, all sports teams fees, their martial arts, dance, guitar lessons, etc. I paid to have her car fixed. I paid her moving fees when she recently moved. I take days off of work to care for the girls when they are sick since I am on salary so that she does not lose her hourly wages.
Anything else, Bonobo?