The man should have the option to not claim the child in the same time frame as the abortion time frame. He then gives up all parental rights and is not financially responsible.The bolded parts point out the hypocritical asymmetry of this statements. In the first you are saying that the man should be able to act unilaterally and stick the woman with 100% of the cost of raising a child. In the second part you are saying that the woman should have to obtain the man's permission to do the same to him."IF" the woman chooses she may also give up her rights to the child if she thinks she can actually carry the child and give it to the father if thats what he and she wants.
...and in neither case is the child consulted about whether he'd like to have one of his parents financially abandon him.