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Thread: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    Quote Originally Posted by SheWolf View Post
    Was the guy drunk too, because he may have not been able to understand what he was doing... If her alcohol consumption means she isn't responsible for the sex, then he isn't either.
    It is called "drunkards droop" for a reason

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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    Quote Originally Posted by bowerbird View Post
    It is called "drunkards droop" for a reason

    If he can get it up then he can control it
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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    Quote Originally Posted by Khayembii Communique View Post
    Girl meets guy for the first time. Girl gets drunk and passes out. Guy has sex with her. Girl plays it off and doesn't care.

    Is this rape?
    Apart from the rape, this points to life issues that she needs to deal with. Either learning not to leave a drink unattended with someone she's just met while on a first date or that she gets so drunk on a first that she was raped and unaware or that she has a serious drink problem, especially if she simply likens this to drunk sex.

    Without knowing her, I think she may have had something put into her drink and the fact she's passing it off means she hasn't come to terms with what happens or is in denial as she maybe felt she could have trusted the guy. Either way, STD tests are very much in order and if you're going to stay with her you'll have to get used to the way she drinks and events occur if she likes to go off on girls nights or other nights without you.

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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    I'll play devil's advocate here since my wife and I had a similar encounter (after we had been married already). I think I have shared this story before on this board as well. We were both in a friend of ours wedding party. Drinks at the reception were free for the wedding party, and we both drank our fair share. We went back to the hotel room, had some sex and passed out. I woke up a few hours later with some "needs" I started caressing my wife, and her body starts responding in kind. So I get in her, and then she wakes up and asks me what the hell I am doing. I thought she had "consented" through non-verbal body responses. She claims she was passed out and had no idea. Was I raping her? By this definition in this thread, I guess. Was there intent to rape? Absolutely not.

    In drunken situations like this, how many guys are going to ask for verbal consent? Can one interpret non-verbal actions as consent?

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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    Quote Originally Posted by Temporal View Post
    Lack of consent = rape.

    I'm a fan of enthusiastic consent for this reason. Lack of a clear yes = no in my books.
    i think this pretty much covers it, folks.

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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    Quote Originally Posted by SheWolf View Post
    Was the guy drunk too, because he may have not been able to understand what he was doing... If her alcohol consumption means she isn't responsible for the sex, then he isn't either.
    If he's that drunk he wouldn't be able to get it up.
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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    Quote Originally Posted by Khayembii Communique View Post
    Girl meets guy for the first time. Girl gets drunk and passes out. Guy has sex with her. Girl plays it off and doesn't care.

    Is this rape?
    I'd say this is rape - but if she doesn't care then it doesn't matter.

    Quote Originally Posted by Khayembii Communique View Post
    Question 2: You've been seeing this girl (not exclusively) for about a month. She nonchalantly tells you about it but doesn't think it's a big deal and likens it to drunk sex. What do you do?
    This is why my husband made a rule on our first day of dating that we would never talk about past sex-acts with others. . . and we've never broken that.

    Quote Originally Posted by Thorgasm View Post
    If he's that drunk he wouldn't be able to get it up.
    Untrue - I'm not sure what percentages we're talking about - but a particular individual I'm married to never has 'a limit which inhibits' - more fun for me. He'll pass out before he loses it. I doubt he's the only one in the world who's this way.
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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aunt Spiker View Post
    Untrue - I'm not sure what percentages we're talking about - but a particular individual I'm married to never has 'a limit which inhibits' - more fun for me. He'll pass out before he loses it. I doubt he's the only one in the world who's this way.
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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    It is
    We do need a better people.
    But the "man" should not boil in hell for this so-called indiscretion..

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    Re: Is having sex with a passed out girl rape?

    Yes, it is rape. If she doesn't or can't consent then anything sexual you may do to her is rape. It's no different than using a date rape drug imo.
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