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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    Oh gosh. Here I am again with might be a unique opinion/view. It doesnít even look like Iíd be part of a minority. Oh well.
    Every response Iíve read so far is judging a marriage by their standard and that standard is the only valid one. There are some legal requirements for a marriage, too many I think. Concerning sex in a marriage, what is agreed to is OK, what is not agreed to isnít OK. And, I shouldnít be part of it if it isnít my marriage.

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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    I wouldn't myself think it was cheating. As long as the husband is honest about what he's doing and not trying to hide the doll and the wife is cool with it, it's all good.
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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    My wife just informed me: "No. He's just not getting enough!" I think I'm doing great.

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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    Quote Originally Posted by Luna Tick View Post
    His wife is out of town and he is lonely and horny and decides he'll do a blow-up doll. Because it's not a real woman, he believes it's not cheating. Is it?
    Are you serious?
    Well I answered no and thats based on my opinion but I can't really see any logical reason that solo masturbation would EVER be cheating by any rational person.

    But then again its not my marriage.
    Its NOT cheating IMO but there might be cause for concern if you and him havent had sex for a long time because he says no but yet he is always banging his doll or something along those lines.
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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    Not to me.

    I think it ridiculous for people to consider a normal level of masturbation, even using props/toys, as cheating. It may be unhealthy, if it is done too much or in place of sex with a willing, available partner, but I still wouldn't call that cheating.
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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    Quote Originally Posted by molten_dragon View Post
    No, it's not cheating, any more than a wife using a vibrator or dildo would be. A sex doll is just masturbation with a prop.
    Good point, I forgot about women and vibrators. I wonder what the ratio of married women owning a vibrator is to married men owning a sex doll..

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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    A blow up doll is not a living person. I wouldn't say it's cheating, but it may harm the relationship.
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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    Of course, it's cheating, but only if he wines and dines the blow-up doll too.
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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    Of course not. It would be like saying if a woman uses a vibrator that is cheating.

    I never understood the attraction to blow-up dolls, but to each their own.
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    Re: If a married man has sex with a blow-up doll, has he cheated?

    Quote Originally Posted by danarhea View Post
    Of course, it's cheating, but only if he wines and dines the blow-up doll too.
    Cheap date though.

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