true monogamy is one of the ways civilized man has attempted to elevate himself above the lesser animals.
of course, the liberal agenda hopes to regress mankind at all levels, which is why monogamy is more and more
being portrayed as "unrealistic" through social media and scholastic venues. funny how the liberal atheist rants
and raves about atheist evolution over the manifestation beliefs of the creationist; yet does everything in his power
to stagnate the evolution of society through regressing civilized behavior.
You're missing the fact that we have not "regressed" at all. Your fantasy of the life-long monogamy past is just that - a fantasy. It has never been true. It probably never will be.
I said myself above that humans do tend to be monogamous. This monogamy is not as strict as the social ideal of the recent past, but over-all, we are monogamous for the duration of our relationships. I am mostly that way myself. So are most other people who have responded to this thread. In fact this thread is a fairly good representation of true human sexual relationships - mostly monogamous, with a few individuals being outliers in either direction of extremity, and a substantial percentage of people admitting to not-completely-monogamous relationships at some point in the past or present.
And what is so terrible about that? How exactly does it hurt us?
I am someone who is quite comfortable with that reality of human relationships. While it is certain there are trials of being in a relationship with me, one of the most frequent positive things I hear from my partners is how easy I am to talk to and how drama-less I am in how I handle relationships. This is largely because I don't cling to fantastical notions or drive relationships into the ground by trying to micro-manage them and have constricting interactions with my partners.
There is never anything wrong with how people feel. There is never anything wrong with things changing, and people changing. As long as there is a standard of honesty and integrity that is carries throughout, my relationships never actually end. They just change forms. I rarely lose the people I love because I can allow us to be what we are.
What is so horrible and morally wrong with that? How exactly does that hurt anything? I don't have the trail of tears following my love life that many people do.
I am not fighting
against anything. I am simply allowing myself and others to feel how we feel. If a pair wind up in a happy, vibrant relationship for life, great. My ethos wouldn't prevent that in any way. As long as the relationship continues to be healthy and happy for both parties, there's no reason to end it. That's silly.
The evolution of human relationships, at this point, seems to deal with applying our communication to our emotions.