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Thread: Is an affair a dealbreaker

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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    Quote Originally Posted by lewstherin View Post
    "vows" are promises. if a person isn't willing to keep a "vow", then they shouldn't make a "vow".
    for better or for worse, for sickness and in health. love, honor and obey. that's the "vow".
    i say what i mean. i have that much honor still, even in today's sick world.
    I would tend to agree with you, which I why I never plan to be married. To make a promise about how things will be in 40 years is ridiculous. No one knows that. And the only way to guarantee that vow is kept is to be willing to sacrifice your quality of life for it, and bring your partner down with you. I don't see any reason to do that. It causes less pain and destruction for people to be honest about how they feel and for partners to be honest with each other. I think marriage itself is a faulty institution.
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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    Quote Originally Posted by lewstherin View Post
    oh....my bad......with this link you can find the divorce rates from all years from 1940-2010....
    Table: Marriage and divorce rate by years, indicators and area, 1940-2010

    tell me if you'd like the to see the crime rate stats as well. i'll work on that for you, too.
    Lew...huh, where is the "Republic of Moldova"? Reason I ask - that's where you link goes to.

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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    Quote Originally Posted by Removable Mind View Post
    Lew...huh, where is the "Republic of Moldova"? Reason I ask - that's where you link goes to.
    ummm...i think it's that far away land where statistics are just a click away. the fairies and the elves merely type
    in the years and the subjects of that which they wish to gain knowledge in....and BOOM....the magical gift of everlasting
    glorious knowledge comes forth and devours the ignorant as a great dragon does a lowly peasant.
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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    Quote Originally Posted by lewstherin View Post
    ummm...i think it's that far away land where statistics are just a click away. the fairies and the elves merely type
    in the years and the subjects of that which they wish to gain knowledge in....and BOOM....the magical gift of everlasting
    glorious knowledge comes forth and devours the ignorant as a great dragon does a lowly peasant.
    Actually it's a tiny little country of about 3.5 million in Europe, so I don't think your linked stats from there are particularly relevant.
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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    And sex slaves. Moldova has lots of those.
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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    Quote Originally Posted by Jeezy View Post
    And sex slaves. Moldova has lots of those.
    sex slaves are always statistical.

    so..........does anyone have a link refuting my claim that divorce rates have steadily increased since the late 1950's?
    because if not? all your "link-bashing" bull$h!t is for naught.
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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    Was anyone ever claiming they weren't, on the whole?

    It was just a funny link.

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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    Quote Originally Posted by lewstherin View Post
    sex slaves are always statistical.

    so..........does anyone have a link refuting my claim that divorce rates have steadily increased since the late 1950's?
    because if not? all your "link-bashing" bull$h!t is for naught.
    Most graphs I've seen indicate late 60s. Doesn't really affect whatever the hell it is you were saying though.

    This thread turned stupid overnight.
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    Re: Is an affair a dealbreaker

    Quote Originally Posted by lewstherin View Post
    sex slaves are always statistical.

    so..........does anyone have a link refuting my claim that divorce rates have steadily increased since the late 1950's?
    because if not? all your "link-bashing" bull$h!t is for naught.

    Lew, come onnnnnn, you can do it.

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