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Your first love

Do you remember your first love

  • Clear as a bell

    Votes: 25 52.1%
  • Kinda/sorta okay. Not really. No.

    Votes: 5 10.4%
  • With great fondness

    Votes: 11 22.9%
  • With great disdain/contempt/hate is such a strong word, no?

    Votes: 3 6.3%
  • We have not yet been properly introduced

    Votes: 4 8.3%

  • Total voters
    48
I mean, dayum.

When I was a 15yo studmuffin, I could've passed for 17 easily. There was this girl about 21 or 22 who was always flirting with me. SHE was just teasing... and maybe wishing I was older, heh :cool: ... not to say that 15yo me probably would have followed her right to the bedroom if she's said "go".

Does that make her a pedo and young-me a pedo-lover? You never had a crush on someone older?

I mean jeebus, Jerr-bear, who pissed in your cornflakes today?
 
By using relatively common sayings which are known to imply maturity and immaturity, she said exactly that.

Well not really, no, but if that's how you read her post then I accept that was your interpretation.
 
I just love it what I can manipulate a mod to brake forum rules against trolling, name calling and bypassing the word sensor :peace

Hehe. Nice try, Jerr-bear. We both know you're the one trolling; you've admitted repeatedly thats what you do here. I didn't call you a name, I said you made an "assumption". And in order to bypass the word censor, it has to be one of the banned words... which "ass" isn't. Since I was referring to your assumption, and not you personally, it's within bounds.

Thanks for playing, see Stink Martindale for your consolation prize. :lamo
 
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As you said, that was after the pic, so yes I missed it before I posted the pic, everyone did, because that post didn't exist yet.

Only Capt'n C has a time machine that I'm aware of.

It was after the pic, but before your subsequent posts defending the pic despite new info having been posted.
 
I mean, dayum.

When I was a 15yo studmuffin, I could've passed for 17 easily. There was this girl about 21 or 22 who was always flirting with me. SHE was just teasing... and maybe wishing I was older, heh :cool: ... not to say that 15yo me probably would have followed her right to the bedroom if she's said "go".

See I have the opposite problem...well ok it's not literally a 'problem' but you know....I'm 33, and I'm frequently asked what high-school I go to. I'm carded every time, and they look at my ID as though it's a fake. When I was 12-14ish, I looked like a little kid. Like 6-8.

Yesterday I met one of my Dad's friends and we got to talking, my upcoming diployment came up and she said something like 'well at least you don't have a wife and kids yet that you'de have to leave behind..'

Yeah.....2 kids, married 11 years.....mhmm, I get it all the time.

Does that make her a pedo and young-me a pedo-lover? You never had a crush on someone older?
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he kid having a crush is normal. The adult having a crush back is pedo.

I mean jeebus, Jerr-bear, who pissed in your cornflakes today?

Molti-grain Cheerios, actually, and it was the same person as always.
 
Any regrets, anybody?

Its funny. I sat and thought about this question for awhile. My first "love" ... First year in college and he was a much older man. I felt like it was love, but looking back, it really wasnt. For me, it was just the "firsts", for him, it was being able to have a much younger innocent girl he could control. Do I regret it???? No... because it made me who I am today. All my experiences, good and bad, in life made me who I am today and I really like that person. So no, no regrets.

First "true love". I remember him well, because I am married to him. I love who "we" are as a team, as a couple. Both of our life experiences and relationships made us who we are now, so that is why I have no regrets.
 
Hehe. Nice try, Jerr-bear. We both know you're the one trolling; you've admitted repeatedly thats what you do here. I didn't call you a name, I said you made an "assumption". And in order to bypass the word censor, it has to be one of the banned words... which "ass" isn't. Since I was referring to your assumption, and not you personally, it's within bounds.

Thanks for playing, see Stink Martindale for your consolation prize. :lamo

Case in point.

All the 'waky-waky Jer-bear', calling me an ass, and such...but it's ok, you do what you do, it's all good. You're isn't a dry and direct approach like mine, which is why more people will tolerate your behavior even though our motives are similar....your's is more of hinting at subtext, fluffy teddy-bear sort of style....I like it. Usually I only see that in women with a hidden grudge against men, it's unusual to find it in men, but it's still ok.
 
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I mean, dayum.

When I was a 15yo studmuffin, I could've passed for 17 easily. There was this girl about 21 or 22 who was always flirting with me. SHE was just teasing... and maybe wishing I was older, heh :cool: ... not to say that 15yo me probably would have followed her right to the bedroom if she's said "go".

Does that make her a pedo and young-me a pedo-lover? You never had a crush on someone older?

I mean jeebus, Jerr-bear, who pissed in your cornflakes today?

I passed for older my entire teen years. I'm Hispanic and we grow all the right curves in all the right places really early. I've had pretty much the same body since I was 13 years old. Plus I'm quite tall too so people always thought I was at least 3 years older than I really was.
 
I'm Hispanic and we grow all the right curves in all the right places really early.

That's not always true. There's a hispanic lady on my block and she's got a big old hump on her back. I don't know how old she was when she got it, though.
 
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he kid having a crush is normal. The adult having a crush back is pedo.

Not if the "adult" is 18 and thinks the kid is 17. Seventeen is legal in almost every state I know of. Yeah maybe he could have been busted if they'd got it on, despite his mistaken assumption, but it wasn't deliberate pedophilia.



Molti-grain Cheerios, actually, and it was the same person as always.

Yeah, I know. It's like that sometimes.
 
Do you remember? Some members are awfully young, here. Have you even met your first love yet?

Oh hell yeah - his name was Shane Bragga, I had the biggest crush on him when I was 10 . . . he was awesome, Brazilian, into sport-biking . . . then he moved to Brazile, I moved away with my family and I never saw him again. But we did talk on the phone years later somehow - he was always cool but it never went further than that.

I wrote a lot of poems about him
 
Case in point.

All the 'waky-waky Jer-bear', calling me an ass, and such...but it's ok, you do what you do, it's all good. You're isn't a dry and direct approach like mine, which is why more people will tolerate your behavior even though our motives are similar....your's is more of hinting at subtext, fluffy teddy-bear sort of style....I like it. Usually I only see that in women with a hidden grudge against men, it's unusual to find it in men, but it's still ok.




Well, I'm sorry you percieve friendly teasing, the sort of friendly poke many men engage in daily, as veiled insult or hidden grudges, but I know things have been rough lately for you, so... :shrug:


I've never had anything personal against you. We've agreed on many things in discussions past. You've gotten bitter lately, and sharper-tongued, and we both know why and I don't blame you.... I just wish you wouldn't do it here.
 
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I passed for older my entire teen years. I'm Hispanic and we grow all the right curves in all the right places really early. I've had pretty much the same body since I was 13 years old. Plus I'm quite tall too so people always thought I was at least 3 years older than I really was.

I think some more Tavern pics are in order.
 
Not if the "adult" is 18 and thinks the kid is 17. Seventeen is legal in almost every state I know of. Yeah maybe he could have been busted if they'd got it on, despite his mistaken assumption, but it wasn't deliberate pedophilia.

Well see that's why I opened with "statutory" rape.

In the eyes of the law it doesn't matter how old someone looks or behaves, or even if they both consent, but their actual birth date.

Well, I was trying to be cute and funny with the pic, not seriously accuse anyone of a crime, what a flop that turned out to be.

My mother always told me to stick to what I'm good at, so I'm an asshole. I should just stay with that.

Have a good one folks :2wave:
 
Well if that's what she meant, that's not what she said.

In any even it's strange to me that a girl would want a less-mature boy. If she was pushing to act like what 14 y/o'ds think adults act like, then it's weird that she would seek out someone who acted 12. Idk, good or bad, w/e, that just stands out to me.

or maybe you are just so p.o'd over your ex wife that you are lashing out against any target you can.

You owe Arcana an apology.
 
junior year in high school... before the school year started, met a Filipina exchange student at Church... she was 16... also an athlete (volleyball)... after getting to know her, we spent most of the yer together and went to the junior prom together...
 
Regrets? Eh... no, not as far as real loves. It is what it is. I might regret that one crazy guy I dated though.

Actually I take that back. He gave me a really rad tattoo idea.
 
My first love and first kiss was at eight years old, her name was Anne and I met her in London while living there for 2 years. Now being eight I was in total denial so I wanted to think.
 
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