View Poll Results: Do you remember your first love

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  • Clear as a bell

    27 52.94%
  • Kinda/sorta okay. Not really. No.

    6 11.76%
  • With great fondness

    11 21.57%
  • With great disdain/contempt/hate is such a strong word, no?

    3 5.88%
  • We have not yet been properly introduced

    4 7.84%
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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Risky Thicket View Post
    A closet Democrat?
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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Councilman View Post
    I married her and 33 years later she betrayed me. Not who I thought she was at all.
    She took all the pleasure and none of the pain
    all of the credit and none of the blame
    I came home to an empty flat
    she'd left me a note and taken the cat

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Risky Thicket View Post
    Nothing like the throaty breath of a six by, the smell of diesel fuel and a good looking woman. I'm guessing that guy is forever sorry he turned you down.
    I turned him down.

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by BDBoop View Post
    You married your first love?

    I hear ya. I was betrayed after 13 years of marriage, and had the same shock and disbelief. Almost threw away the entire marriage, assuming it had all been a lie. But we WERE happy for at least 12 years. I'm not giving up that reality simply because that man no longer exists.
    I thought we were as happy as could be but it all came tumbling down. I am sorry for your lose.

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    Re: Your first love

    I remember my first love clearly. I was so worried about rejection my friend had to force me to ask her after he had assured me 5x over she would say yes. Nice girl, but bad family life. She was doomed from the start, but I was as good a b/f as I could be. Circumstances beyond our control broke us up, so I guess I remember her in a good light.




    That and she had an incredible rack at age 15.
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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by BDBoop View Post
    I turned him down.
    Shame on you, girl. He was probably thinking the same thing about you, shy and waiting on you to say something.










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    Re: Your first love

    Depends on whether we're talking about a puppy love crush kind of thing or actual real love.

    If it's the former, it was my best friend when I was 8. Her name was Kirby and she was the first girl I ever kissed.

    If we're talking about actual true love, I didn't find that until I started dating my future wife at 19.
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    Re: Your first love

    When I was 17 (I'm 40), I actually thought, for a number of months, that I could spend the rest of my life, happily, with this person. We married at ~20 and divorced ~24. It's the only time I've been in love (that youthful year). I only say it (selectively) to family. I show "it", to my friends and lovers.
    Last edited by ecofarm; 06-23-11 at 07:47 AM.

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    Re: Your first love

    Can you forget being stabbed? Same thing.
    Thank you

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    Re: Your first love

    I remember it clearly (I was 16/17 at that time).

    At first, we were really happy. After two years, she realized she is transsexual and wanted to become a guy, which is when our relationship ended. That actually relieved me, because I had been feeling something is wrong all along, but she had always denied that. Then I finally knew what it was.

    We're still buddies, he has made his way and is a happy and successful guy now. Last year, my fiancée and I attended his and his boyfriend's civil union ceremony in a church and I was asked to give a blessing.
    "Not learning from mistakes is worse than committing mistakes. When you don't allow yourself to make mistakes, it is hard to be tolerant of others and it does not allow even God to be merciful."

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