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Your first love

Do you remember your first love

  • Clear as a bell

    Votes: 25 52.1%
  • Kinda/sorta okay. Not really. No.

    Votes: 5 10.4%
  • With great fondness

    Votes: 11 22.9%
  • With great disdain/contempt/hate is such a strong word, no?

    Votes: 3 6.3%
  • We have not yet been properly introduced

    Votes: 4 8.3%

  • Total voters
    48
Good thing this thread didn't get all sentimental and mushy and stuff....
 
Good thing this thread didn't get all sentimental and mushy and stuff....

Par for the course, and a whole lot of fun. ;)
 
Love. The kind whereby you ... man. I remember being in the back of a deuce-and-a-half. Doug looked up as he was going to help me down, and I remember to this day, 30+ years later, how his blue eyes were a match for the October sky, and I promptly quit breathing. I remember pretending to beat on him, laughing, when he looked at me and sang "Wish you could come, but I don't need no woman tagging along."

Nothing like the throaty breath of a six by, the smell of diesel fuel and a good looking woman. I'm guessing that guy is forever sorry he turned you down.
 
I married her and 33 years later she betrayed me. Not who I thought she was at all.

She took all the pleasure and none of the pain
all of the credit and none of the blame
I came home to an empty flat
she'd left me a note and taken the cat

(Procol Harum)
 
Nothing like the throaty breath of a six by, the smell of diesel fuel and a good looking woman. I'm guessing that guy is forever sorry he turned you down.

I turned him down. :(
 
You married your first love?

I hear ya. I was betrayed after 13 years of marriage, and had the same shock and disbelief. Almost threw away the entire marriage, assuming it had all been a lie. But we WERE happy for at least 12 years. I'm not giving up that reality simply because that man no longer exists.

I thought we were as happy as could be but it all came tumbling down. I am sorry for your lose.
 
I remember my first love clearly. I was so worried about rejection my friend had to force me to ask her after he had assured me 5x over she would say yes. Nice girl, but bad family life. She was doomed from the start, but I was as good a b/f as I could be. Circumstances beyond our control broke us up, so I guess I remember her in a good light.




That and she had an incredible rack at age 15.
 
Depends on whether we're talking about a puppy love crush kind of thing or actual real love.

If it's the former, it was my best friend when I was 8. Her name was Kirby and she was the first girl I ever kissed.

If we're talking about actual true love, I didn't find that until I started dating my future wife at 19.
 
When I was 17 (I'm 40), I actually thought, for a number of months, that I could spend the rest of my life, happily, with this person. We married at ~20 and divorced ~24. It's the only time I've been in love (that youthful year). I only say it (selectively) to family. I show "it", to my friends and lovers.
 
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Can you forget being stabbed? Same thing.
 
I remember it clearly (I was 16/17 at that time).

At first, we were really happy. After two years, she realized she is transsexual and wanted to become a guy, which is when our relationship ended. That actually relieved me, because I had been feeling something is wrong all along, but she had always denied that. Then I finally knew what it was.

We're still buddies, he has made his way and is a happy and successful guy now. Last year, my fiancée and I attended his and his boyfriend's civil union ceremony in a church and I was asked to give a blessing.
 
Met her August 22, 1982.
Married her August 22, 2009
 
You married your first love?

I hear ya. I was betrayed after 13 years of marriage, and had the same shock and disbelief. Almost threw away the entire marriage, assuming it had all been a lie. But we WERE happy for at least 12 years. I'm not giving up that reality simply because that man no longer exists.

You might consider posting a poll asking whether an affair should end a marriage. (I would if I knew how, and had time tonight to "host" it.)
 
Every person who I have ever loved I will always remember, even if things didn't work out between us. So many beautiful moments shared... they still cross my mind.
 
Sure do...she was actually a Canadian. Never loved a girl like I loved her, but some things ain't meant to be.
 
We were together for over 4 years and a called off engagement, moving in and out with each other, and a baby later (actually 2 weeks after my daughter was born) she decided to call it quits, let me know she cheated on me 5 times, and now I am trying to talk her out of wanting my 6 month old daughters ears to be pierced. Welcome to the life of meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

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