View Poll Results: Do you remember your first love

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  • Clear as a bell

    27 52.94%
  • Kinda/sorta okay. Not really. No.

    6 11.76%
  • With great fondness

    11 21.57%
  • With great disdain/contempt/hate is such a strong word, no?

    3 5.88%
  • We have not yet been properly introduced

    4 7.84%
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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Arcana XV View Post
    You're getting me all confused!! Okay, back to the other guy that I can barely remember even though I thought I was madly in love with him at the time.
    Sorry!

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Goshin View Post
    Didja miss the part where he was 18, and he THOUGHT she was 17 and she didn't correct him? Or did you miss the part where they didn't have sex?

    Wakey-wakey, Jerr-bear.
    Well that's how I read her post:

    Quote Originally Posted by Arcana XV View Post
    Very, very vaguely. I was 14 going on 30, I think he was almost 18 going on 12. I don't even know why I thought I was in love with him. Whatever that means at 14. Anyway, no, not really.
    .....I mean that, to me, clearly says that she saw tendencies in him that leaned pedo; just as she was purposefully trying to act older than she was, so was he trying to act younger than he was. Her post didn't seem to frame her relationship as otherwise normal.

    So, maybe another cup of coffee is in order, but I don't think she represented her relationship as perfectly innocent if in fact it actually was.

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Jerry View Post
    Well that's how I read her post:



    .....I mean that, to me, clearly says that she saw tendencies in him that leaned pedo; just as she was purposefully trying to act older than she was, so was he trying to act younger than he was. Her post didn't seem to frame her relationship as otherwise normal.

    So, maybe another cup of coffee is in order, but I don't think she represented her relationship as perfectly innocent if in fact it actually was.
    She just meant that he was immature for his age while she was mature for her age. Nothing about sex or pedophilia.

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Tucker Case View Post
    She just meant that he was immature for his age while she was mature for her age. Nothing about sex or pedophilia.
    Well if that's what she meant, that's not what she said.

    In any even it's strange to me that a girl would want a less-mature boy. If she was pushing to act like what 14 y/o'ds think adults act like, then it's weird that she would seek out someone who acted 12. Idk, good or bad, w/e, that just stands out to me.
    Last edited by Jerry; 06-22-11 at 04:28 PM.

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Jerry View Post
    Well if that's what she meant, that's not what she said.
    Posted after your explanation of the pic, but well before my post and your replies to it:

    Quote Originally Posted by Arcana XV View Post
    Well, you'd have a point if I'd actually slept with him and if he actually had any idea how old I really was. He thought I was 17 and I never bothered to correct him.

    I thought we were talking about "first love". Are we talking about "first time we had sex". Because HIM, I remember very well.
    Ya missed that one I guess.


    Even so, love =/= sex, especially in the teens. You made one of those, waddayacallit, A$$umptions....
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    Re: Your first love

    Yeah - that actually goes to the state of your mental health, not her actual relationship. People see ''sick' based on their own perceptions, which don't necessarily have anything to do with reality.

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Goshin View Post
    Posted after your explanation of the pic, but well before my post and your replies to it:



    Ya missed that one I guess.


    Even so, love =/= sex, especially in the teens. You made one of those, waddayacallit, A$$umptions....
    As you said, that was after the pic, so yes I missed it before I posted the pic, everyone did, because that post didn't exist yet.

    Only Capt'n C has a time machine that I'm aware of.

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by BDBoop View Post
    Yeah - that actually goes to the state of your mental health, not her actual relationship. People see ''sick' based on their own perceptions, which don't necessarily have anything to do with reality.
    'Perception is everything', so they say.

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Goshin View Post
    Even so, love =/= sex, especially in the teens. You made one of those, waddayacallit, A$$umptions....
    I just love it what I can manipulate a mod to brake forum rules against trolling, name calling and bypassing the word sensor

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    Re: Your first love

    Quote Originally Posted by Jerry View Post
    Well if that's what she meant, that's not what she said.
    By using relatively common sayings which are known to imply maturity and immaturity, she said exactly that.

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