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Your first love

Do you remember your first love

  • Clear as a bell

    Votes: 25 52.1%

  • Kinda/sorta okay. Not really. No.

    Votes: 5 10.4%

  • With great fondness

    Votes: 11 22.9%

  • With great disdain/contempt/hate is such a strong word, no?

    Votes: 3 6.3%

  • We have not yet been properly introduced

    Votes: 4 8.3%
  • Total voters
    48
Yes I do. Only to find out after two and half years she was cheating on me with my best mate. Now she is engaged to some college drop out and she herself dropped out of nursing school.
 
Arcana XV said:
Very, very vaguely. I was 14 going on 30, I think he was almost 18 going on 12. I don't even know why I thought I was in love with him. Whatever that means at 14. :lol: Anyway, no, not really.
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Indeed, at 13, it meant something quite different to me than it does now.
 
Arcana XV said:
Very, very vaguely. I was 14 going on 30, I think he was almost 18 going on 12. I don't even know why I thought I was in love with him. Whatever that means at 14. :lol: Anyway, no, not really.
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Arcana XV said:
I don't get it.
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It's called statutory rape. Your 'first love' was a pedophile and you liked it; hence the little girl showing off her tramp-stamp and pedobear going nuts over it.
 
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Jerry said:
It's called statutory rape. Your 'first love' was a pedophile and you liked it; hence the little girl showing off her tramp-stamp and pedobear going nuts over it.
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Well, you'd have a point if I'd actually slept with him and if he actually had any idea how old I really was. He thought I was 17 and I never bothered to correct him. :lol:

I thought we were talking about "first love". Are we talking about "first time we had sex". Because HIM, I remember very well.
 
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BDBoop said:
Do you remember? Some members are awfully young, here. Have you even met your first love yet?
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Of course. I can see her face as clearly now as thirty years ago, though I haven't seen her in at least fifteen years.

I absolutely adored her, and she absolutely adored me; I'm sure we were quite sickening. :lol:

We dated for three years. It ended a year after we went off to seperate colleges. It was just a thirty-minute drive and we saw each other regularly, but we just went off in seperate directions.






(I'm assuming you mean first "real love", not first "puppy love".)
 
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Jerry said:
It's called statutory rape. Your 'first love' was a pedophile and you liked it; hence the little girl showing off her tramp-stamp and pedobear going nuts over it.
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Really, needlessly rude and crude, Jerry.
 
Jerry said:
But her pedo-boyfriend gets a pass. Got it :peace
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Didja miss the part where he was 18, and he THOUGHT she was 17 and she didn't correct him? Or did you miss the part where they didn't have sex?

Wakey-wakey, Jerr-bear.
 
Arcana XV said:
Oh, well, in that case, yes I remember him. He was sweet. We were both 16 and each other's first. Nothing but good memories. :)
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I meant first real love. Not first puppy love, not first sex. :)
 
Arcana XV said:
You're getting me all confused!! Okay, back to the other guy that I can barely remember even though I thought I was madly in love with him at the time. :lol:
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Sorry! :)
 
Goshin said:
Didja miss the part where he was 18, and he THOUGHT she was 17 and she didn't correct him? Or did you miss the part where they didn't have sex?

Wakey-wakey, Jerr-bear.
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Well that's how I read her post:

Arcana XV said:
Very, very vaguely. I was 14 going on 30, I think he was almost 18 going on 12. I don't even know why I thought I was in love with him. Whatever that means at 14. :lol: Anyway, no, not really.
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.....I mean that, to me, clearly says that she saw tendencies in him that leaned pedo; just as she was purposefully trying to act older than she was, so was he trying to act younger than he was. Her post didn't seem to frame her relationship as otherwise normal.

So, maybe another cup of coffee is in order, but I don't think she represented her relationship as perfectly innocent if in fact it actually was.
 
Jerry said:
Well that's how I read her post:



.....I mean that, to me, clearly says that she saw tendencies in him that leaned pedo; just as she was purposefully trying to act older than she was, so was he trying to act younger than he was. Her post didn't seem to frame her relationship as otherwise normal.

So, maybe another cup of coffee is in order, but I don't think she represented her relationship as perfectly innocent if in fact it actually was.
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She just meant that he was immature for his age while she was mature for her age. Nothing about sex or pedophilia.
 
Tucker Case said:
She just meant that he was immature for his age while she was mature for her age. Nothing about sex or pedophilia.
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Well if that's what she meant, that's not what she said.

In any even it's strange to me that a girl would want a less-mature boy. If she was pushing to act like what 14 y/o'ds think adults act like, then it's weird that she would seek out someone who acted 12. Idk, good or bad, w/e, that just stands out to me.
 
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Jerry said:
Well if that's what she meant, that's not what she said.
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Posted after your explanation of the pic, but well before my post and your replies to it:

Arcana XV said:
Well, you'd have a point if I'd actually slept with him and if he actually had any idea how old I really was. He thought I was 17 and I never bothered to correct him. :lol:

I thought we were talking about "first love". Are we talking about "first time we had sex". Because HIM, I remember very well.
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Ya missed that one I guess.


Even so, love =/= sex, especially in the teens. You made one of those, waddayacallit, A$$umptions.... :mrgreen:
 
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Yeah - that actually goes to the state of your mental health, not her actual relationship. People see ''sick' based on their own perceptions, which don't necessarily have anything to do with reality.
 
Goshin said:
Posted after your explanation of the pic, but well before my post and your replies to it:



Ya missed that one I guess.


Even so, love =/= sex, especially in the teens. You made one of those, waddayacallit, A$$umptions.... :mrgreen:
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As you said, that was after the pic, so yes I missed it before I posted the pic, everyone did, because that post didn't exist yet.

Only Capt'n C has a time machine that I'm aware of.
 
BDBoop said:
Yeah - that actually goes to the state of your mental health, not her actual relationship. People see ''sick' based on their own perceptions, which don't necessarily have anything to do with reality.
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'Perception is everything', so they say.
 
Goshin said:
Even so, love =/= sex, especially in the teens. You made one of those, waddayacallit, A$$umptions.... :mrgreen:
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I just love it what I can manipulate a mod to brake forum rules against trolling, name calling and bypassing the word sensor :peace
 
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