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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    the fact that he felt the need to lie about it indicates he considered it cheating
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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    In the general sense of a relationship - following up a moment's sexual interest in another person where there is no agreement or discussion of boundaries is cheating. If boundaries have been agreed and then one of the parties crosses that boundary and doesn't tell / confess then it can't be anything but cheating.

    Personally, I don't like to tie cheating to marriage as many people are in close relationships without the word "marriage" - a personal bond of trust and love has been agreed and the couple have committed to each other. If the couple have discussed and agreed beforehand that there are no boundaries or that the boundaries are flexible then there is no issue.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    The answer is in the word. Cheating. If it is open and discussed and mutually agreed on then it isnt cheating. Its not very smart IMO, but thats just me. If however it is done behind the others back then of course it is cheating.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Interesting series of calls from those on the Left for Weiner to resign and/or wait for the investigation to see if he used House resources.

    even Ed Schultz says he should step down.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by BDBoop View Post
    Is it an open marriage?
    NO! It's a marriage based upon trust, they do happen you know?


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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by cpwill View Post
    Interesting series of calls from those on the Left for Weiner to resign and/or wait for the investigation to see if he used House resources.

    even Ed Schultz says he should step down.
    So what? Ed Schultz is nothing more than a blow hard talk show host.


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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by pbrauer View Post
    NO! It's a marriage based upon trust, they do happen you know?
    I'm sorry, but the way you were talking, it sounded like you were advocating open marriage, to a point. i.e., you can cheat as long as it's not physical, aka it's not cheating as long as it's only emotional.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by pbrauer View Post
    I don't believe I said it was okay. I do believe that is not as serious as finding her in the sack with another guy. And after 39 years of marriage "I've never had that situation come up.
    I'm glad. I know there are many good marriages out there. I just got double-whammied out of mine. Any level he could find to cheat on, he cheated. I think he became somebody he wasn't so he could be with me, and now that he's reverted, he's with her.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    I am happy to see the number of people who have posted here that have a moral compass the seems to work.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by BDBoop View Post
    I'm glad. I know there are many good marriages out there. I just got double-whammied out of mine. Any level he could find to cheat on, he cheated. I think he became somebody he wasn't so he could be with me, and now that he's reverted, he's with her.
    I am sorry to hear about that, now I know where you are coming from.


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