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Thread: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    When a married person is engaged in digital intimacy, that's cheating, period.
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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    You know - he's a super douche for speaking for his wife on this situation, too. He should not dare assume to put words in her mouth. "I love her and she loves me" - if she wrote a statement that's fine but to just interjet like that....tsk tsk.

    If she actually wants to put this aside and move forward with their marriage then that's her personal choice but he should never *ever* dare presume ot say what he thinks she feels - those are her emotions and thoughts, not his . . . that just came across as super douche controlling psycho husband.
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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    He doesn't have a speech writer? It's supposed to be "and I hope she still loves me".

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by Viktyr Korimir View Post
    That's not naive. That's a big part of how I define "cheating"; if you have to hide it, it is. To me, fidelity is about loyalty, not sex. If you have put something else above your spouse and your marriage, whatever it is, you have cheated; you have betrayed the trust your spouse has held in you and broken your vows of marriage. In this case, it doesn't seem like there was much going on beyond exchanging pictures; it's somewhere between pornography and adultery, and much much closer to the former.
    The man who 'cheated' on me, had his first wife cheat on him in the same manner which I described to pbrauer. She fell in love with another man. They didn't act on it - but she did it, and Dim saw it happening. We were coworkers at that time, so I saw how it made him feel.

    Now, if those were my only two options, I think I'd rather have my husband nail some nameless, faceless bimbo than watch him fall in love with another woman, right in front of my face. But as options go, they both bite the big one and I can't even tell you how far my opinion of my dearly beloved would fall.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by DemonMyst View Post
    Hence the part about being between him and his wife.. Why would hear anything about it?? What part of 'None of your Business.' do you not understand?? Neither him or his wife should have to say anything to you for you to hear..

    You don't see liberals demanding an explinantion from Ensign or Gov. Sanford about their affairs.. Hell, Sanford used tax payer money to fly to another country and see his.. Why is it that republicans don't seem to worried about such things when it is involves a republican.. Did you hear anything from them?? Or did you even ask??
    I'd reply in greater detail but after three readings of your post I still don't know what the hell you are trying to say. You seem to be rebutting an argument I have not made.

    I don't demand any explanations from anyone.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by BDBoop View Post
    Weiner said he didn't cheat. Agree, or disagree?
    I think it depends on the dynamics of the relationship one finds themselves in. If my wife or I did something like that, the other would no doubt consider it cheating, but each relationship has its own rules.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by Mellie View Post
    A relationship where emotional and/or physical bonds with other people is encouraged/permitted/etc. doesn't seem like much of a relationship to me.
    Well, thankfully not everyone is you and people are individuals and therefore have their own individual views of things. To you it may not be much of a relationship, but you also aren't in that relationship. It takes all kinds.

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by Mellie View Post
    Remind me not to marry you.
    Not to worry, I have 39 years of marriage under my belt, so I have a different perspective than you.

    (Besides, I could never marry a Glenn Beck fan, but I digress.)


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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by pbrauer View Post
    Not to worry, I have 39 years of marriage under my belt, so I have a different perspective than you.

    (Besides, I could never marry a Glenn Beck fan, but I digress.)
    Is it an open marriage?

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    If the boyfriend started secretly sexting with another girl we'd have a serious trust issue on our hands. I have no problem with him looking at porn, going to strip clubs, or even receiving a "happy ending" at a massage parlor. He's pretty free to receive extraneous "jollies". Hidden, secretive actions are unacceptable for me.
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