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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by Mellie View Post
    It bothers me that the woman felt she needed other men besides her husband to make her feel "whole" again. I tend to think she only felt that way because the men didn't know she couldn't walk so it was a fantasy for her.
    It was very definitely a fantasy for her.

    Doesn't matter to me, though. If I had an emotional or physical bond with another man whether it be online or off, I would be cheating on my husband.
    That is you, that does not mean for other couples it would be.

    Just curious....did the husband do the same as his wife?
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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Disappointed I didn't post this earlier in this thread.
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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by DemonMyst View Post
    I don't think we here can determine if cybersex or sexting is cheating.. Alot depends on the relationship.. That being said.. All we can really say is would it be wrong for our relationships.. We don't know what kind of relationship Weiner has with his wife.. That is between him and his wife..

    Red: The couple you know sounds a lot like a couple I know.. But they play WOW.. I guess they could play both.. Still weird.. It would be freaky if it turned out to be the same couple..
    I didn't hear him say she was aware of any of this and not bothered by it. Those would have been the first words out of my mouth in that situation, provided that was the case. And didn't he say he "let her down," or some such?

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    The conversation is reminding me of a line from one of my favorite movies, The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas.

    I love the line where the old lady tells the reporter that she considered it a break for her when her husband visited the Chicken Ranch. And this one that I think is from Miss Mona (Dolly Parton) "Oh Fred, you mean to tell me you don't think the cows don't appreciate the time off when a bull goes over to the other pasture?"
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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by Mellie View Post
    The bond between man and wife isn't just physical, but emotional as well. Making that kind of emotional or physical bond with someone else is cheating. Don't you think?
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    Sorry, its not a black and white issue to me, it comes down to how one defines 'cheating.' Having a physical sexual relationship outside of your marriage is serious and may warrant divorce. I don't believe 'sexting' rises to that level, but that is me.


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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    It cuts both ways. If you both agree to it that's one thing, but even then there's usually a line that once crossed isn't mutually agreeable. I'm thinking Weiner crossed that line in his relationship.










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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by BDBoop View Post
    Weiner said he didn't cheat. Agree, or disagree?
    Did his wife know about it before he started shooting pictures of "her" weiner to other women?

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    Quote Originally Posted by BDBoop View Post
    So if you found out that your wife couldn't stop thinking about another guy, and she was always chatting with him on IM or phone, and sharing things she doesn't tell you anymore, it's okay because it's not physical?
    I don't believe I said it was okay. I do believe that is not as serious as finding her in the sack with another guy. And after 39 years of marriage "I've never had that situation come up.


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    Re: Is cyber sex/sexting "cheating"

    My wife would pull a Bobbit on me if I even thought of cybering/sexting. And I would certainly consider it cheating if my wife did it.
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