Watch how I debate Goshin on this issue. Or Baron for the most part. Or Jerry. These people debate the issue reasonably, either with logic or with their belief systems used as reasons for their position. I have no issue with discussing the issue with them. But folks who come here and say "homosexuality is unnatural", "homosexuality is a mental illness", "homosexuality is a perversion", "homosexuality is just a choice", or many other illogical things or things that can be proven wrong, I WILL go after them and these issues. Usually what happens when I do, is the cognitive dissonance that is formed by being shown that their position is not logical, causes them to get upset and then THEY start to post aggressively. It is not my fault that I have proven their logic faulty.
If you are conflicted on the issue, again, I have no issue with that. There are three positions you can have that would make sense to me: 1) Pro: logic and evidence based; 2) Anti: faith based; 3) Elimination of marriage altogether. Whatever your position, I can point out the positives or negatives of each and help you to understand the issue better.