GoNavy
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Is it possible for grown ups who have been friends for at least 15 years to disagree passionately on a couple issues (2 max) - and still consider themselves friends? Like: I-accept-you-for-who-you-are / and-I-still-enjoy-your-company type friends? Or is that 20th century thinking?
Are disagreements deal-breakers in today's America?
To give you more information - because I can see myself going both ways, if I learned one of my old friends became a member of ISIS, yeah that would be a deal breaker. The scenario involves: (massive can of worms, sorry - liberals) Bruce Jenner. My friend Stewart and I have known each other and hung out for over 15 years. When I came back home, he had moved to Texas. Life happens. Katie is a mutual friend, who is a Berkeley-level feminist. FULL BORE lesbian feminist. She tolerates and loves everyone and everything ... EXCEPT FOR CHRISTIANS who disagree with her !! She will actually take physically assaulting action if she gets worked up enough.
So Stewart and I see eye-to-eye on this whole Jenner can-of-worms. Who are Kylie, Kendall, Brandon, and Sam Jenner's father? What determines sex? Stewart and I would agree - a Y chromosome determines male vs. female. But Bruce / Caitlyn has said in interviews that gender is simply a state-of-mind. Gender Identity Disorder was not official until 1980 in the ... ever-evolving "science" of psychiatry.
Stewart and I do not think that any group, race, ethnicity, or person should have different legal rights, or opportunity, or accessibility. Equality for all. BUT - what we do agree with is - jobs and Universities. If jobs are trying to diversify, and you are a brand new white male employee at YOUR DREAM JOB company without tenure, and you get pushed out for ... whatever reason ... what then? NOW - let's take Harvard and Yale. Do you guys have ANY idea how many more perks and benefits and EXCLUSIVE club membership offers are given to Harvard and Yale grads? And you all know that they are at the top of Ivy-League "diversifiers." So, if I have a HARD-WORKING, military veteran white male ... and I learn that all I have to do is blab with a shrink to identify as female on an admission's application ... that can change the rest of my life.
Katie thought our dialogue was fostering hate and bigotry. Annnnnd ... the 15 years of friendship ... FLUSHED !!!
Can friends disagree passionately - and still move forward as friends? In 2015?
Are disagreements deal-breakers in today's America?
To give you more information - because I can see myself going both ways, if I learned one of my old friends became a member of ISIS, yeah that would be a deal breaker. The scenario involves: (massive can of worms, sorry - liberals) Bruce Jenner. My friend Stewart and I have known each other and hung out for over 15 years. When I came back home, he had moved to Texas. Life happens. Katie is a mutual friend, who is a Berkeley-level feminist. FULL BORE lesbian feminist. She tolerates and loves everyone and everything ... EXCEPT FOR CHRISTIANS who disagree with her !! She will actually take physically assaulting action if she gets worked up enough.
So Stewart and I see eye-to-eye on this whole Jenner can-of-worms. Who are Kylie, Kendall, Brandon, and Sam Jenner's father? What determines sex? Stewart and I would agree - a Y chromosome determines male vs. female. But Bruce / Caitlyn has said in interviews that gender is simply a state-of-mind. Gender Identity Disorder was not official until 1980 in the ... ever-evolving "science" of psychiatry.
Stewart and I do not think that any group, race, ethnicity, or person should have different legal rights, or opportunity, or accessibility. Equality for all. BUT - what we do agree with is - jobs and Universities. If jobs are trying to diversify, and you are a brand new white male employee at YOUR DREAM JOB company without tenure, and you get pushed out for ... whatever reason ... what then? NOW - let's take Harvard and Yale. Do you guys have ANY idea how many more perks and benefits and EXCLUSIVE club membership offers are given to Harvard and Yale grads? And you all know that they are at the top of Ivy-League "diversifiers." So, if I have a HARD-WORKING, military veteran white male ... and I learn that all I have to do is blab with a shrink to identify as female on an admission's application ... that can change the rest of my life.
Katie thought our dialogue was fostering hate and bigotry. Annnnnd ... the 15 years of friendship ... FLUSHED !!!
Can friends disagree passionately - and still move forward as friends? In 2015?