I like simplicity..
Agreed.
In today's world, tolerance is a very clouded word with elastic and oft murky definitions according different individuals and respective cultures.
That makes a lot of sense, and you're definitely right about there being no definitive answer.
I completely agree that the definition, or at least application, of the word toleration in today's world is very cloudy. Personally, toleration as requiring two conditions to exist:
1. You must either disagree with, or feel discomfort from, an activity or idea.
2. You must have the agency to either change or stop this activity or idea.
I don't think a lot of starving people in Haiti were 'tolerating' abject poverty. They were enduring and/ or surviving abject poverty, whereas I would tolerate the use of marijuana through participating in a vote that approves of it's legalization.
Through thinking about the topic for the past week, I've found that the definition of toleration is pretty black & white, but feel that the barriers are a bit cloudy, which is where your point that
"there are no barriers to tolerance other than one's own mind" comes in. For the life of me, I've only been able to come up three barriers:
1. Ignorance, for obvious reasons.
2. The need for validation.
3. A feeling of a lack of control in one's own life.
I really like, or dislike to tell you the truth, your thought about tolerating someone else's intolerance. If we were living in a country that didn't have the agency to stop or alter the intolerance of those in power in some Middle East nations, it would be easy to pawn this off on in ability. However, maybe we do have the power to change the way things are happening over there, does that make us complicit in their activities.
Or are we, as you've said, accepting their lack of toleration for our own self-serving reasons?
Regardless, thanks for the response.