The fact is we really have no idea what came before the Big Bang. Or in what sense the question is even coherent (if at all). Various scientists have proposed various theories, but they're pure speculation at this point. And they all presume
something prior to the Big Bang, not nothing.
One misconception I hear all the time is the insistence that "something can't come from nothing". That there
has to be a cause to the universe. Quite simply, that's false. There doesn't
have to necessarily be any first cause. There's nothing logically inconsistent about something not having a cause. In fact, most of the people who insist the claim actually know very well that it's false; ask them what caused God and they will deadpan "Nothing. God has no cause.". :lol: They're not wrong. They know very well it's logically conceivable for something to not have a cause. Their mistake is insisting the opposite - that the universe cannot logically have no cause and that, therefore, God must have caused it. They've only shifted the matter back one level and just don't recognize they're committing cognitive dissonance.
Saying "the universe was caused by nothing" or "the universe was preceeded by nothing" is simply pointing out that there was no cause. There is no explanation to be had. Reality simply is. Now, it may turn out that's not the case, there may turn out to be a cause. But it's not true to say that there
has to be a cause, that it's impossible for something to be caused by nothing. Like it or not, that
is a valid possibility. Maybe a disappointing one, but a valid one nonetheless.
Part of this misunderstanding that there has to be a cause arises from a misunderstanding of causality. This was (one of) Hume's great realizations- causality is nothing more than a form of correlation - one state accompanying another state. Granted, it's a very specific form of correlation - namely the form of correlation in which one state of reality
must accompany (or follow) another state of reality. For example, if we're playing pool and you hit the 8 ball, I could ask "what caused the 8 ball to move?". You say "because the cue ball hit it". I ask "why does the cue ball hitting the 8 ball cause the 8 ball to move". You say "Well, because when the surface of the cue ball contacts the surface of the 8 ball it imparts a force on the 8 ball". I ask "why does imparting a force on the 8 ball cause it to move". You say "Because unbalanced force causes a body to accelerate". I ask "why does a force cause a body to accelerate". You say "Because Newton said so Goddamnit!"
The point is that there is no underlying necessary reason that one event must cause another event to occur. I can just regressively keep asking "but, why? why does X need to lead to Y?". At some point you just have to stop and admit that there is no reason it has to be this way. It simply turns out that in our universe certain states (effects) just happen to always follow certain other states (causes) - there is no deeper reason. Saying that X caused Y is just observing that state X is always accompanied by state Y in our universe. For example, the state of imparting a force on the 8-ball is followed by the state in which the 8-ball accelerates. When you understand causality in this way it becomes even more clear why "everything must have a cause" is a fallacy.
It gets even stranger when you recognize that causality, in the way i just explained, does not only have to happen in the forward direction of time. Common sense tells us that a cause must come
before an effect, but there's no underlying reason this must be so. And, in fact, there are some bizarre experiments in quantum mechanics that may imply
retrocausality can happen in unusual circumstances - like the delayed choice experiment and the quantum eraser. In which case, theoretically the cause of the big bang could have occurred
after the big bang.
tl;dr: We haven't the foggiest.