Juanita
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Lizzie, that is such a shame..Spirit trys so hard in every way that they can to stay connected with us... Look into ADCs (after death communications) and perhaps you will recognize a sign sent your way...
My Mom who passed 28 years ago, the memories are gentle of the good and happy times. I still hear her admonishing me when I do things she wouldn't like.
My sister who just passed very recently, there is a huge hole in my life. My mind still wanders to recent things we talked about and did.
My love for them both is still strong. They both have been and always will be in my heart.
lets not say they are dead.thats what sucks in my opinion
My sister just died this week. It's the hardest thing I've ever gone through. The problem right now is I can't get the images of her final moments out of my mind. It was agonizing to see her that way. I just hope that fades as time goes by and other better memories fill it in. All this has made me extremely aware of my own mortality and just how short and precious life is.
Yes, they do. They try to help and guide us when they can, but we have to listen...
What do you mean, that you are in denial?
l didnt start it to discuss religions .you know what l mean
Religion has nothing to do with recognizing that a loved one is deceased.
You said "Deceased loved ones. what do you feel about them ?" The premise is that our loved ones are dead; no longer living. Then you asserted that we shouldnt say that they are dead because that sucks. So why did you start this thread then?
When someone is deceased that are indeed dead. Some people have beliefs that people have souls and that never dies. Thats great and all but it does little good in the here and now of this reality we call life. I sat and watched my Mom die, I saw her lifeless body. SHe was dead there was no doubt about it. She will never comeback. I accept that fact and hold on to the memories of her living and the love that will never die. ANd when no one exists that remembers her or even me, the concept of that love will live in principle, much like any other human philosophical construct.
The dead live in the memories the living. Countless people though are dead that no one remembers.
My sister just died this week. It's the hardest thing I've ever gone through. The problem right now is I can't get the images of her final moments out of my mind. It was agonizing to see her that way. I just hope that fades as time goes by and other better memories fill it in. All this has made me extremely aware of my own mortality and just how short and precious life is.
My sister just died this week. It's the hardest thing I've ever gone through. The problem right now is I can't get the images of her final moments out of my mind. It was agonizing to see her that way. I just hope that fades as time goes by and other better memories fill it in. All this has made me extremely aware of my own mortality and just how short and precious life is.