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This is inspired by a comment by Fluffyninja. So all props go to him.
I understand that this is a fairly easy question to answer at first. Of course they can. I have a few friends and we NEVER talk about faith. Faith isn't the basis of our friendship and I have no idea what their faith is. But I dig down and I really think about that question.
My closest friend that is "not Christian" was still raised on Judeo-Christian family values. He never really grew up in a religous home, but it was more because his dad was ALWAYS working and so was his mom. We have been close friends our entire life. The discussion of faith is not something we have ever really talked about. He is like a brother to me too. I am Christian for certain when it comes to my beliefs. All my other close friends are Christian though. My family. My girlfriend. All of them are Christian. So ask yourself? Could you REALLY be friends with someone that is atheist/Christian/Muslim/Jewish/Mormon/Hindu/etc? I don't mean aquantences or buddies. I mean true friends too. Could you do it?
I think I could. I think it still comes down to the human element. So I propose a second question:
Could you marry someone that is not of the same faith/lack of faith as you?
I understand that this is a fairly easy question to answer at first. Of course they can. I have a few friends and we NEVER talk about faith. Faith isn't the basis of our friendship and I have no idea what their faith is. But I dig down and I really think about that question.
My closest friend that is "not Christian" was still raised on Judeo-Christian family values. He never really grew up in a religous home, but it was more because his dad was ALWAYS working and so was his mom. We have been close friends our entire life. The discussion of faith is not something we have ever really talked about. He is like a brother to me too. I am Christian for certain when it comes to my beliefs. All my other close friends are Christian though. My family. My girlfriend. All of them are Christian. So ask yourself? Could you REALLY be friends with someone that is atheist/Christian/Muslim/Jewish/Mormon/Hindu/etc? I don't mean aquantences or buddies. I mean true friends too. Could you do it?
I think I could. I think it still comes down to the human element. So I propose a second question:
Could you marry someone that is not of the same faith/lack of faith as you?