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My Christmas Gift!

Chomsky

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I have a strong immediate family history of prostate cancer:

My father was diagnosed at 57, and I lost him at 62.

My brother recently was diagnosed (very early in progression) at 52, and appears to have successfully battled it by removing his prostate - it's been almost two years free, for him. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, but his prognosis is good.

So it was with great alarm that I found my PSA level had shot from '2' to '4', along with a few minor related consequences that I attributed to getting a little older now further alarming me. For those that don't know, PSA levels are one of the markers that indicate the likelihood of prostate cancer. A '4' is the crossover warning point for a man without any risk factors, and would draw enough attention to perform a biopsy. For a high-risk individual as myself, '2.5' is the crossover point.

I was told my PSA number & family history put me statistically at 20-25% chance of being malignant, though my urologist believed my risk was a bit higher due to the multiple family instances and the extreme closeness. Well, 25% is decent enough odds, but still this is serious stuff.

A biopsy was recently performed.

My urologist's facility has a policy of only discussing the results at a pre-scheduled appointment - this isn't the kind of stuff they do by phone or mail, for obvious reasons.

My results appointment was set for the 2nd week in January.

The day before Christmas Eve I was seeing my GP (different location, same provider) for a separate matter. She is the person that got this whole show going with the urology department, when my routine bloodwork showed a high PSA number. And she knew how stressed I was over this! And unbeknownst to me, the computer she was on had the biopsy results available from the urology department. She decided to break protocol, and asked if I'd like to see them. I panicked and initially declined (preferring to hear it from the urologist with my wife present, as scheduled), but then agreed when she became more insistent.

By now you probably guessed all the results were negative! Every one of the 12 pokes!

And I think we can also guess my GP peeked at the results before asking me if I'd like to know them.

But I & my family got a very good present this Christmas.

And it made Midnight Mass a more poignant experience!
 
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I'm thrilled for you and your family! My husband battled prostrate cancer several years ago, and there are indicators that it may have returned, so it's nothing to mess around with. I'm so glad your tests were negative!
 
Great news, Chomsky! I'm happy for you. Health is wealth as they say.
 
Merry Christmas Chomsky! :2dance:
 
Very nice my friend. Merry Christmas.
 
I'm thrilled for you and your family! My husband battled prostrate cancer several years ago, and there are indicators that it may have returned, so it's nothing to mess around with. I'm so glad your tests were negative!
Oh Di, I'm so sorry to hear this.

My thoughts & wishes are with you and your husband.

Hopefully the indicators are not conclusive, as mine were not. I had a few other little indicating quibbles that were (falsely) indicating as well.

In a way, those of us men that went through this with a family member are better-off in our personnel physical health, because we are so much more vigilant. Basic diligence (regular PSA testing, cognizance of indicating symptoms) raises detection & survivability stratospherically.

Prostate cancer has a high success-rate in treatment *IF* caught early.
 
Glad to hear you got a clean bill of health. Good Christmas news indeed.
 
Great news, Chomsky! I'm happy for you. Health is wealth as they say.

Greetings, PoS. :2wave:

I ordered your book from Amazon an hour ago! It sounds like the type of thing I enjoy reading, and I should receive it in a few days. :thumbs:

Merry Christmas!
 
Greetings, PoS. :2wave:

I ordered your book from Amazon an hour ago! It sounds like the type of thing I enjoy reading, and I should receive it in a few days. :thumbs:

Merry Christmas!

Wow, thank you! It's a great gift for me and Merry Christmas to you too, polgara!

Chomsky, I lost a very good friend too from prostate cancer- he was a business partner of mine when we had an office in Shanghai and he was a Canadian. I still miss the guy even today. I only wish he tested as regularly as you did because by the time we found out about it it was too late. So keep up with the tests and stay vigilant.
 
I have a strong immediate family history of prostate cancer:

My father was diagnosed at 57, and I lost him at 62.

My brother recently was diagnosed (very early in progression) at 52, and appears to have successfully battled it by removing his prostate - it's been almost two years free, for him. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, but his prognosis is good.

So it was with great alarm that I found my PSA level had shot from '2' to '4', along with a few minor related consequences that I attributed to getting a little older now further alarming me. For those that don't know, PSA levels are one of the markers that indicate the likelihood of prostate cancer. A '4' is the crossover warning point for a man without any risk factors, and would draw enough attention to perform a biopsy. For a high-risk individual as myself, '2.5' is the crossover point.

I was told my PSA number & family history put me statistically at 20-25% chance of being malignant, though my urologist believed my risk was a bit higher due to the multiple family instances and the extreme closeness. Well, 25% is decent enough odds, but still this is serious stuff.

A biopsy was recently performed.

My urologist's facility has a policy of only discussing the results at a pre-scheduled appointment - this isn't the kind of stuff they do by phone or mail, for obvious reasons.

My results appointment was set for the 2nd week in January.

The day before Christmas Eve I was seeing my GP (different location, same provider) for a separate matter. She is the person that got this whole show going with the urology department, when my routine bloodwork showed a high PSA number. And she knew how stressed I was over this! And unbeknownst to me, the computer she was on had the biopsy results available from the urology department. She decided to break protocol, and asked if I'd like to see them. I panicked and initially declined (preferring to hear it from the urologist with my wife present, as scheduled), but then agreed when she became more insistent.

By now you probably guessed all the results were negative! Every one of the 12 pokes!

And I think we can also guess my GP peeked at the results before asking me if I'd like to know them.

But I & my family got a very good present this Christmas.

And it made Midnight Mass a more poignant experience!

I am glad to hear that.
 
Oh Di, I'm so sorry to hear this.

My thoughts & wishes are with you and your husband.

Hopefully the indicators are not conclusive, as mine were not. I had a few other little indicating quibbles that were (falsely) indicating as well.

In a way, those of us men that went through this with a family member are better-off in our personnel physical health, because we are so much more vigilant. Basic diligence (regular PSA testing, cognizance of indicating symptoms) raises detection & survivability stratospherically.

Prostate cancer has a high success-rate in treatment *IF* caught early.

He went through surgery and radiation. He has been told he cannot repeat either process. He is considerably older than I; all we can do is wait and hope that he will not be a victim, just as I hope your family will be well. Bless you all.
 
He went through surgery and radiation. He has been told he cannot repeat either process. He is considerably older than I; all we can do is wait and hope that he will not be a victim, just as I hope your family will be well. Bless you all.

Fingers crossed for you and hubs.
Wishing you all the best.
 
I have a strong immediate family history of prostate cancer:

My father was diagnosed at 57, and I lost him at 62.

My brother recently was diagnosed (very early in progression) at 52, and appears to have successfully battled it by removing his prostate - it's been almost two years free, for him. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, but his prognosis is good.

So it was with great alarm that I found my PSA level had shot from '2' to '4', along with a few minor related consequences that I attributed to getting a little older now further alarming me. For those that don't know, PSA levels are one of the markers that indicate the likelihood of prostate cancer. A '4' is the crossover warning point for a man without any risk factors, and would draw enough attention to perform a biopsy. For a high-risk individual as myself, '2.5' is the crossover point.

I was told my PSA number & family history put me statistically at 20-25% chance of being malignant, though my urologist believed my risk was a bit higher due to the multiple family instances and the extreme closeness. Well, 25% is decent enough odds, but still this is serious stuff.

A biopsy was recently performed.

My urologist's facility has a policy of only discussing the results at a pre-scheduled appointment - this isn't the kind of stuff they do by phone or mail, for obvious reasons.

My results appointment was set for the 2nd week in January.

The day before Christmas Eve I was seeing my GP (different location, same provider) for a separate matter. She is the person that got this whole show going with the urology department, when my routine bloodwork showed a high PSA number. And she knew how stressed I was over this! And unbeknownst to me, the computer she was on had the biopsy results available from the urology department. She decided to break protocol, and asked if I'd like to see them. I panicked and initially declined (preferring to hear it from the urologist with my wife present, as scheduled), but then agreed when she became more insistent.

By now you probably guessed all the results were negative! Every one of the 12 pokes!

And I think we can also guess my GP peeked at the results before asking me if I'd like to know them.

But I & my family got a very good present this Christmas.

And it made Midnight Mass a more poignant experience!

Congratulations!
 
I have a strong immediate family history of prostate cancer:

My father was diagnosed at 57, and I lost him at 62.

My brother recently was diagnosed (very early in progression) at 52, and appears to have successfully battled it by removing his prostate - it's been almost two years free, for him. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, but his prognosis is good.

So it was with great alarm that I found my PSA level had shot from '2' to '4', along with a few minor related consequences that I attributed to getting a little older now further alarming me. For those that don't know, PSA levels are one of the markers that indicate the likelihood of prostate cancer. A '4' is the crossover warning point for a man without any risk factors, and would draw enough attention to perform a biopsy. For a high-risk individual as myself, '2.5' is the crossover point.

I was told my PSA number & family history put me statistically at 20-25% chance of being malignant, though my urologist believed my risk was a bit higher due to the multiple family instances and the extreme closeness. Well, 25% is decent enough odds, but still this is serious stuff.

A biopsy was recently performed.

My urologist's facility has a policy of only discussing the results at a pre-scheduled appointment - this isn't the kind of stuff they do by phone or mail, for obvious reasons.

My results appointment was set for the 2nd week in January.

The day before Christmas Eve I was seeing my GP (different location, same provider) for a separate matter. She is the person that got this whole show going with the urology department, when my routine bloodwork showed a high PSA number. And she knew how stressed I was over this! And unbeknownst to me, the computer she was on had the biopsy results available from the urology department. She decided to break protocol, and asked if I'd like to see them. I panicked and initially declined (preferring to hear it from the urologist with my wife present, as scheduled), but then agreed when she became more insistent.

By now you probably guessed all the results were negative! Every one of the 12 pokes!

And I think we can also guess my GP peeked at the results before asking me if I'd like to know them.

But I & my family got a very good present this Christmas.

And it made Midnight Mass a more poignant experience!
so happy for you!! my guy had the same close call so I know how fast our world can go from normal to full out fear and then into elation

life is strange

it's a call to live in the now, I try but this type of experience makes it happen at least for a while
 
I have a strong immediate family history of prostate cancer:

My father was diagnosed at 57, and I lost him at 62.

My brother recently was diagnosed (very early in progression) at 52, and appears to have successfully battled it by removing his prostate - it's been almost two years free, for him. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, but his prognosis is good.

So it was with great alarm that I found my PSA level had shot from '2' to '4', along with a few minor related consequences that I attributed to getting a little older now further alarming me. For those that don't know, PSA levels are one of the markers that indicate the likelihood of prostate cancer. A '4' is the crossover warning point for a man without any risk factors, and would draw enough attention to perform a biopsy. For a high-risk individual as myself, '2.5' is the crossover point.

I was told my PSA number & family history put me statistically at 20-25% chance of being malignant, though my urologist believed my risk was a bit higher due to the multiple family instances and the extreme closeness. Well, 25% is decent enough odds, but still this is serious stuff.

A biopsy was recently performed.

My urologist's facility has a policy of only discussing the results at a pre-scheduled appointment - this isn't the kind of stuff they do by phone or mail, for obvious reasons.

My results appointment was set for the 2nd week in January.

The day before Christmas Eve I was seeing my GP (different location, same provider) for a separate matter. She is the person that got this whole show going with the urology department, when my routine bloodwork showed a high PSA number. And she knew how stressed I was over this! And unbeknownst to me, the computer she was on had the biopsy results available from the urology department. She decided to break protocol, and asked if I'd like to see them. I panicked and initially declined (preferring to hear it from the urologist with my wife present, as scheduled), but then agreed when she became more insistent.

By now you probably guessed all the results were negative! Every one of the 12 pokes!

And I think we can also guess my GP peeked at the results before asking me if I'd like to know them.

But I & my family got a very good present this Christmas.

And it made Midnight Mass a more poignant experience!

Congrats Chom! I'm very happy for you.
 
He went through surgery and radiation. He has been told he cannot repeat either process. He is considerably older than I; all we can do is wait and hope that he will not be a victim, just as I hope your family will be well. Bless you all.

Oh my goodness Ms. Di. I'm definitely pulling for him. Hope it all works out well.
 
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