What happens when someone loses a job due to no fault of their own? You know very well how businesses "downsize" or do "layoffs" or send their business overseas. All of a sudden there's no income...and what happens to the breadwinner's ability to pay the mortgage, much less for food, clothing, and all the other needs of a family? This is why we have unemployment INSURANCE...but after the jobs go away, it becomes really tough to find another job because all the local small businesses are no longer hiring since so many of their customers just lost their jobs...and when the unemployment insurance runs out, if there is no welfare, no place to turn, that person who couldn't find a job - and his entire family - are now homeless...and now you have another person who CAN'T get a job BECAUSE he is homeless...and he and his family members are much more likely to turn to crime.
What happens when the husband decides to leave the wife, and he was the only breadwinner? All of a sudden she and her children have NOTHING...and listening to you, that's the way it SHOULD be...that somehow the fact that she's got NOTHING will prevent her and her children from becoming homeless.
What's going on here is you - and so many conservatives and libertarians like you - have convinced yourself that those who find themselves on welfare somehow WANT to stay on welfare, that dignity and independence somehow aren't important to them. YES, there are *some* who would be that way...but the great majority of those on welfare do NOT want to remain on welfare - they WANT decent jobs, they WANT opportunities to prosper, to advance...but as long as you and people like you insist that "you'll do better if we kick you to the curb", such remain distant dreams that they'll never have a chance of reaching.