Tell me more about "cave time".
It's true about the straight lines. If you look at a map of the world, the areas with borders that have fewer organic looking lines are usually artificially created ones that have little to do with the sociology of the area.
Iraq comes to mind. So does Pakistan.
His insights into "cave time" were pretty eye opening.
It seems we are still cavemen, and our programming from back then is still with us.
Back then, the men hunted all day in groups and brought back the meat for all to share.
Once back home, after chasing down deer with pointed sticks, the men needed time to relax and rest.
During this time they just want to be left alone and be silent.
men also have a finite number of words to use every day.
women also have a finite number of words, but the number is much more.
At the end of the day, the caveman had used up his words and just wanted to sit in the cave and relax in silence.
the women, on the other hand, still have more words to use, so they still want to talk, and talk.
Fast forward to a typical bar scene. (this is where I first met him, BTW)
In a typical bar around 6pm, you will see individual men sitting alone drinking calmly and in silence.
In that same bar you will see groups of women sitting together talking with each other.
He said, this is NOT the time for a man to come up to the women and attempt to interact with them.
They still have words to use and are using them.
He then said if you wait till the women start getting more quiet and start looking around the bar, is the time to initiate any interaction.
Sure enough, at about 7:30 or so, the two groups of women started looking around the bar, and any man who approached before was politely shot down
But the women would have also been shot down if they tried to bother the men during their "cave time".
Both men and women have "cave time" where they each need to have their moments.
Thousands of years have made us this way.
I saw this happen with the people in that little Brownsville, TX bar as if they were acting on que(sp).