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There is no such theing as "It's me, not you".

rhinefire

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When you split up with a person you loved is it not both parties, not just one nearly 100% of the time? Is it possible to truly love someone but not have any desire to marry and or live with?
 
When you split up with a person you loved is it not both parties, not just one nearly 100% of the time? Is it possible to truly love someone but not have any desire to marry and or live with?

Yes it is quite possible. I have dated and lived with and even slept with many women whom I loved, and in many cases still love, very much. However, because of that dating process, we (sometimes only I) learned that we could not live well together. Loving someone doesn't mean that the two of you have the practical compatibility to make a home together long term. Nor does having that compatibility mean that you will feel the love necessary for them to be a life mate. Now usually if I am giving someone the line of "it's not you, it's me" I am trying to tell them that while I am not finding a compatibility with them, it doesn't mean that there is no one out there with whom they can find that life mate.
 
When you split up with a person you loved is it not both parties, not just one nearly 100% of the time? Is it possible to truly love someone but not have any desire to marry and or live with?
I don't know. Now I am seeking a girl who is likely to live with me.
 
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