This should be titled, "10 Pathetic Excuses Some Women Choose to be Disgusting Evil Cheating Trash." I've posted articles before about trashy cheating cad men who should be shot. Here's one about women. In case you haven't noticed, I have zero sympathy for anyone, man or woman, who cheats.
Full Article:Women In Their 40s Are Having Great Sex... Just Not With Their Husbands
Over the past few years, I've witnessed a growing number of married couples in my fortysomething peer group calling it quits. Not surprisingly, infidelity is a factor in many of these breakups. What is surprising is that it's the women -- not the men-- who are cheating.
Although recent high-profile scandals have involved cheating men (think John Edwards, Anthony Weiner, Arnold Schwarzenegger), a study out of Indiana University finds that women today cheat at about the same rate as men, and that the number of unfaithful women is growing. The study showed that 19 percent of married women and 23 percent of married men reported cheating, statistics that reflect a closing of the cheating gender gap. (Note: These numbers are probably on the conservative side because they reflect the percentage of people who admitted to cheating. Presumably, the numbers of unfaithful partners is higher.) Research from the 1990s found that only 10 percent of married women reported being unfaithful. According to these numbers, female infidelity may one day rival or even surpass male cheating.
Another interesting fact? According to the study, the most common age for women to have an affair is 45. For men, it's 55.
Samantha Parent Walravens: Women In Their 40s Are Having Great Sex... Just Not With Their Husbands
The excuses and my comments.
Great. If you have greater confidence sign up and run a race, run for office, go for a promotion. More confidence does not mean you should break the sacred vows you said before God.1. Greater confidence. Women in their 40s have fewer insecurities and are more confident about their bodies, their careers and themselves. They know who they are and feel comfortable in their skin. Many have jobs outside the house and an identity apart from that of mother/wife. Working outside the house also provides women more opportunities to meet men -- and to pursue affairs -- than their stay-at-home counterparts.
Kids are grown up so ... "I've got to become a whore." Great justification, cheating trash.2 "Mommy" stage is over. By their 40s, women no longer have leaky, milk-filled breasts for feeding babies. Hey, maybe they've even gotten their pre-baby figure back! They are feeling sexy for the first time in a while. Having brought up toddlers, they have more freedom to go out again and relax -- with their husbands, partners or someone else entirely.
"I got horny so biology made me cheat." Men have used this excuse for years. It's a pathetic one for them. It's a pathetic one for women.3. Shifting hormones. In their 40s, women's testosterone levels are on the rise, which increases their libido, or sex drive. The so-called "nurturing" hormones -- estrogen and oxytocin -- are on the wane, making them less physically wired to attend to the needs of others and more likely to put themselves and their own needs first.
Wonderful ... use cheating as a dopamine drug addiction. Just shoot heroin. It would be more honorable.4. Bedroom boredom. Let's face it, after 20 years with the same partner, sex can become "plain vanilla." And as Christian Grey has taught us, nobody likes "plain vanilla." Sex with someone new is exciting and forbidden and provides a dopamine rush similar to a drug-induced high.
If you're feeling neglected/unappreciated, then express that you're feeling neglected or unappreciated! Find some other way to get his attention. Cheating is NEVER an option. If worse comes to worse, end the relationship and be with someone who does appreciate you. Cheating makes YOU the bad person.5. Feeling neglected/unappreciated. Women wear many hats in a marriage -- housekeeper, errand-runner, grocery shopper, babysitter, cook, doctor, lover, etc. Is it any wonder that a woman is tuckered out by her 40s? If she feels more like a housekeeper or maid than a beloved and cherished wife, that's when she may stray. The fact that a husband may be spending inordinate amounts of time at work, traveling or on the golf course gives her more reason to seek attention elsewhere.
Give me a break. If you have low self esteem, see a therapist.6. Self-esteem booster. Sex can be an instant pick-me-up, a self-esteem booster that makes women feel sexier, more beautiful and more loved. If a woman feels unappreciated or neglected by her husband, a sexual affair could be just the medicine that she needs.
Two wrongs don't make a right.7. Revenge/payback for past wrongs. Whether her husband cheated, lost a job, made a bad investment or got caught in a lie, a woman feels hurt and betrayed when trust has been broken. She may want to do the same to get even.
Ah-hah. Get short on money, just go out and **** someone who's not your husband. That will help your financial problems. Well, maybe it will if you take money for it. Then at least you'll be admitting you're the WHORE that you are.8. Financial woes. Many families today are experiencing financial troubles, which puts a huge strain on a marriage. Women in their 40s feel that they have put in many years of hard labor -- giving birth, raising kids and often working outside the house at the same time. When their husbands are without jobs or decent paychecks, women feel that their husbands are not fulfilling their end of the bargain and become angry and resentful.
*barf bag* Let the bad girl out with your HUSBAND. Try some leather, try some chains, try some spanking with your HUSBAND!9. Letting the bad girl out. Have you noticed how many women get a breast augmentation, liposuction or other plastic surgery after their childbearing years to enhance their looks and sexuality? If not, take another look. Just as men feel the need to sow their wild oats, some women have an inner sex kitten that -- especially with rising testosterone levels -- is just waiting to come out!
Um ... no. If you're that unhappy, the correct order is 1. break up or divorce 2. sleep with someone else.10. Exit strategy. Instead of breaking up, it's easier to cheat. An affair is an easy way out, or at least that's how some women see it.
If you don't have the courage to break up, that's pathetic.