Thread: 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat

There are plenty of reasons for people to cheat even if they don't actually cheat. If a spouse is not interested in sex or affection and just wants to live as roommates it gives their mate a reason to cheat. In many marriages one or both spouses are content to fulfill their roles as mother and father and pursue career goals but don't want to work on their relationship. Stuff happens as a marriage progresses. Just walking away from a marriage is not always the best option. I really don't blame some people for succumbing to temptation in situations. You cannot expect a spouse to just give up sex because you are no longer interested.

Originally Posted by jambalaya

There are plenty of reasons for people to cheat even if they don't actually cheat. If a spouse is not interested in sex or affection and just wants to live as roommates it gives their mate a reason to cheat. In many marriages one or both spouses are content to fulfill their roles as mother and father and pursue career goals but don't want to work on their relationship. Stuff happens as a marriage progresses. Just walking away from a marriage is not always the best option. I really don't blame some people for succumbing to temptation in situations. You cannot expect a spouse to just give up sex because you are no longer interested.

In a situation such as one person losing interest in sex, it would be selfish for them to expect the other to give up sex as well. I suppose an "arrangement" could be made for the person who still desires sex to have their needs fulfilled... but in the long run, that is probably going to lead to a disaster and will end up with a failed marriage and divorce. Rather than infidelity, if there are situations that cannot be resolved, its better to end the relationship and live honorably rather than sneaking, lying and cheating.

Originally Posted by 00timh

In a situation such as one person losing interest in sex, it would be selfish for them to expect the other to give up sex as well. I suppose an "arrangement" could be made for the person who still desires sex to have their needs fulfilled... but in the long run, that is probably going to lead to a disaster and will end up with a failed marriage and divorce. Rather than infidelity, if there are situations that cannot be resolved, its better to end the relationship and live honorably rather than sneaking, lying and cheating.

i hear you
destroy an otherwise well functioning family
the hell with what happens to the kids

Originally Posted by justabubba

i hear you
destroy an otherwise well functioning family
the hell with what happens to the kids

Tell me what happens to the kids when a marriage begins going south?? Trust me on this. Kids are better off with separated parents that are happy rather than miserable parents that are together. I stayed in my miserable state for years because of the belief that it is better for the parents to be together. I am a far better father today and my kids are far better off. OF course now I am remarried, but my kids were not a consideration other than I would have only married someone who would be good to them. I never was in the thought of I have to get remarried because of my kids.

Originally Posted by 00timh

Tell me what happens to the kids when a marriage begins going south?? Trust me on this. Kids are better off with separated parents that are happy rather than miserable parents that are together. I stayed in my miserable state for years because of the belief that it is better for the parents to be together. I am a far better father today and my kids are far better off. OF course now I am remarried, but my kids were not a consideration other than I would have only married someone who would be good to them. I never was in the thought of I have to get remarried because of my kids.

what you failed to recognize is that the parents have resolved the sex issue and in doing so have preserved the marriage
that benefits the kids
you presume the parents are miserable; that does not have to be the situation. especially if sex outside the marriage has resolved the sexual tension that existed

In the case of my ex wife, the only reason I need is that she is a bat sh!t crazy narcissist bitch who goes through life as if she's the only person in the whole effing world.

Originally Posted by Luna Tick

This should be titled, "10 Pathetic Excuses Some Women Choose to be Disgusting Evil Cheating Trash." I've posted articles before about trashy cheating cad men who should be shot. Here's one about women. In case you haven't noticed, I have zero sympathy for anyone, man or woman, who cheats.



Full Article:
Samantha Parent Walravens: Women In Their 40s Are Having Great Sex... Just Not With Their Husbands

The excuses and my comments.



Great. If you have greater confidence sign up and run a race, run for office, go for a promotion. More confidence does not mean you should break the sacred vows you said before God.



Kids are grown up so ... "I've got to become a whore." Great justification, cheating trash.



"I got horny so biology made me cheat." Men have used this excuse for years. It's a pathetic one for them. It's a pathetic one for women.



Wonderful ... use cheating as a dopamine drug addiction. Just shoot heroin. It would be more honorable.



If you're feeling neglected/unappreciated, then express that you're feeling neglected or unappreciated! Find some other way to get his attention. Cheating is NEVER an option. If worse comes to worse, end the relationship and be with someone who does appreciate you. Cheating makes YOU the bad person.



Give me a break. If you have low self esteem, see a therapist.



Two wrongs don't make a right.



Ah-hah. Get short on money, just go out and **** someone who's not your husband. That will help your financial problems. Well, maybe it will if you take money for it. Then at least you'll be admitting you're the WHORE that you are.



*barf bag* Let the bad girl out with your HUSBAND. Try some leather, try some chains, try some spanking with your HUSBAND!



Um ... no. If you're that unhappy, the correct order is 1. break up or divorce 2. sleep with someone else.
If you don't have the courage to break up, that's pathetic.

Interesting. If this is true, then are we now re-discovering why societies decided to sexually oppress women for 1000's of years, ever since the pre-historic matriarchal societies turned patriarchal?

Cheating is just a symptom. I've slept with many married women in my days on this rock.

Here's a hint to the ladies or anyone else - I didn't destroy a home/marriage. It was already destroyed by her desire to cheat. I just facilitated.

It's the same reasoning behind why some people blame outside factors. If I walked in on some guy givin' the business to my girl, I wouldn't dive on him. I'd dive on her. He's not the one cheating on me.

Originally Posted by justabubba

what you failed to recognize is that the parents have resolved the sex issue and in doing so have preserved the marriage
that benefits the kids
you presume the parents are miserable; that does not have to be the situation. especially if sex outside the marriage has resolved the sexual tension that existed

If that can be arranged and held to, then great for them. That is not really the point of this thread though, as an arrangement and agreement made between two people would not constitute cheating at all.

Originally Posted by justabubba

i hear you
destroy an otherwise well functioning family
the hell with what happens to the kids

Here we go again. Only cowards use their children to shield themselves from personal responsibility. Selfish.

People should have more self control.