Thread: SIL/BIL Question......

Originally Posted by Tigger

Nope. Nor will the fact that Tisha and I are taking her parents to the New England Aquarium in Boston this coming Saturday. Nor the fact that his Father's Day present is a new door lock for the basement door, to keep the grandkids and his daughters out of there.



I understand it's not always the Brady Bunch. So long as her parents are happy, I'm fine with it. As Tisha and I keep talking about with the sisters..... "Kill them with kindness"



Her parents absolutely love me. It's only the two sisters who are a problem. They like me, but they're very jealous of what Tish and I have going on.

okay ,and keep away from those two .))

Originally Posted by Goshin

A thought: Take the two sisters and the babydaddy out with you and the lil' lady sometime. Nice dinner somewhere, maybe go to a show together.... might go a long way toward quenching the jealousy if you spread the largesse around a little, not just for the parents.

We've talked about it. We're just having an issue coming up with somewhere everyone wants to go. Tisha and I are more the Applebee's and the latest release at the box office speed while the other three are the go out to the nightclub at 10pm and party until 3am while spending $175 on alcohol type. We're having a little trouble finding something in the middle to agree upon.

Originally Posted by Tigger

We've talked about it. We're just having an issue coming up with somewhere everyone wants to go. Tisha and I are more the Applebee's and the latest release at the box office speed while the other three are the go out to the nightclub at 10pm and party until 3am while spending $175 on alcohol type. We're having a little trouble finding something in the middle to agree upon.

Yeah I can see where that would be a problem. I'm more the former type myself, and spending four hours at some loud nightclub with people getting ****faced would irritate the crap out of me.


Not to mention I'd fall asleep about midnight.

Originally Posted by Goshin

Yeah I can see where that would be a problem. I'm more the former type myself, and spending four hours at some loud nightclub with people getting ****faced would irritate the crap out of me.


Not to mention I'd fall asleep about midnight.

İ knew that! and it is why ı prefered to go to an art gallery with you

Originally Posted by Medusa

İ knew that! and it is why ı prefered to go to an art gallery with you

I like art. Haven't been to a gallery in some time, that's an appealing thought.

Originally Posted by evanescence

Definitely. Not to mention heartless.

Sure family will screw you over, but so will anyone else. People in general suck. But saying "you're not my sister anymore" is childish and cruel. And then telling your mom that you don't want her "youngest daughter nowhere near" her house is just plain selfish. If all you care about is your own stress level, why even deal with family at all?

Because I can want to deal with part of my family and not deal with the other. Do you not have family that you loathe? Don't tell me. I know you do. We've had this conversation before. As far as being selfish, I could care less if I am being selfish. When she told me 2 years ago that I killed my father, she became less than nothing to me, and my mother knows that to be able to see me and her granddaughters, she has to make that one small sacrifice, for the amount of time we are there.

Originally Posted by Superfly

Because I can want to deal with part of my family and not deal with the other. Do you not have family that you loathe? Don't tell me. I know you do. We've had this conversation before. As far as being selfish, I could care less if I am being selfish. When she told me 2 years ago that I killed my father, she became less than nothing to me, and my mother knows that to be able to see me and her granddaughters, she has to make that one small sacrifice, for the amount of time we are there.

Of course I have family I loathe. That's ****ed up that she told you that killed your dad. wtf?