Thread: An 'Open Letter' to Husbands

My take on what makes for a successful relationship: what a woman wants, what she needs, and what we as men are obligated to provide.

An Open Letter to Husbands - Yahoo! Voices - voices.yahoo.com

Appreciate you taking time to read it, and as always, appreciate your feedback.

Thanks,

Dave

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There is never a day that passes where I do not remind her over and over how beautiful she is. From the fanciest dress for a night out to flannel pajamas, there will always be something to compliment.






I make sure every consideration is given to make her life easier and more comfortable. I would not get in bed at night, or get up off the couch, without first checking to see if I can bring her anything: Would you like a glass of water? Can I make you some tea? Do you need a Q-tip? Whatever. You worked hard today, at your career and as a mommy, so just lie there and I will take care of you.




I take advantage of every opportunity to do something nice, regardless of the occasion. It is always great to send flowers. What woman does not like that? But instead, dig out an old picture of the 'first' time you ever sent her flowers, back when your relationship was all so new. Email her that picture, and tell her 'I still remember how I felt the day I sent you these. I love you more today than I ever have. Thank you for all these years.' One costs $50, One is free. Which one brings tears to your eyes?



i would like to have such a husband....

Originally Posted by Medusa

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There is never a day that passes where I do not remind her over and over how beautiful she is. From the fanciest dress for a night out to flannel pajamas, there will always be something to compliment.






I make sure every consideration is given to make her life easier and more comfortable. I would not get in bed at night, or get up off the couch, without first checking to see if I can bring her anything: Would you like a glass of water? Can I make you some tea? Do you need a Q-tip? Whatever. You worked hard today, at your career and as a mommy, so just lie there and I will take care of you.




I take advantage of every opportunity to do something nice, regardless of the occasion. It is always great to send flowers. What woman does not like that? But instead, dig out an old picture of the 'first' time you ever sent her flowers, back when your relationship was all so new. Email her that picture, and tell her 'I still remember how I felt the day I sent you these. I love you more today than I ever have. Thank you for all these years.' One costs $50, One is free. Which one brings tears to your eyes?



i would like to have such a husband....

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Originally Posted by dreams.

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yes ,who wouldnt like

Originally Posted by Dave Weaver

My take on what makes for a successful relationship: what a woman wants, what she needs, and what we as men are obligated to provide.

An Open Letter to Husbands - Yahoo! Voices - voices.yahoo.com

Appreciate you taking time to read it, and as always, appreciate your feedback.

Thanks,

Dave

I think we create our relationships one day at a time.......

Originally Posted by Medusa

yes ,who wouldnt like

Don't hesitate to give me a call

Originally Posted by dreams.

Don't hesitate to give me a call

i will keep in mind

the flower thing is pretty corny, but my wife does like to be told she looks good, that i care for her, and that i will take care of her when needed. also she loves it when i do her chores if she had a rough day or has an assignment due or something.

it only took me 10 years to find out she wanted to hear this early and often, heh.

the good news is, when i started doing this i got both more booty and time to play video games. its a win-win.

I'm really lucky because my wife still takes my breath away, even after 12 years.

And I've always had the sense to tell her so every time she does.

Originally Posted by What if...?

I'm really lucky because my wife still takes my breath away, even after 12 years.

And I've always had the sense to tell her so every time she does.

do you use sign language?