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i'll bet you were.
do you really think a gay couple would have sex in a rom[sic] full of straight men?
For me there is more to life than the internet and you. Secondly I think you acting childish and that is why I did not respond initially.
Panache said:Fine by me. I have had female roommates and gay roommates, and neither was a problem. Much ado about nothing IMHO.
Do you really think a man and woman would have sex in a room full of both straight and gay men and women?
Why is separate but equal ok for men and women, but not ok for gays and straights?
i'll bet you were.
what i said to you is true.....you don't have a clue about sexuality or sexual orientation. many gay people marry people of the opposite sex to fit in, or to try to repress their natural tendencies. a member of my family did just that.
so, no, you don't have a clue.
for the simple fact that a straight person will not have sex with a gay person, and i sincerely doubt a roomful of straight people will tolerate gay people having sex in their midst
You did not respond to my question.......If gays and straights are housed together why not men and women? After all gays and straights are attracted to one another and so are men and women............can you tell me the difference?
There's a little bit of a difference though, since in one of those cases you'd probably be the aggressor and in the other you'd be the defender (I assume).
That is stupid question because the answer is so simple. See the part I put in bold. By your own logic, we only need to separate gay men from each other. A straight man is no more likely to be attracted to a gay man than with any other man. Therefore, even if the gay man was attracted to him, it would be unreciprocated and therefore would cause no problems unless the gay man made unwanted advances. If that were the cases, it would be handled the same way as if a man made unwanted sexual advances on a woman.
We separate the sexes because they are attracted to each other not because one is attracted to just the other. That is why the comparison is invalid and you look ridiculous every time you try to bring it up as a valid argument.
Nice try in case you did not know if your reading the thread your name appears at the bottom....
But anyhow I am with you..Let gays live with straights if women and men can live together aboard ship.....
But you think a room full of both gay and straight people would tolerate straight people having sex in their midst?
I just hate how this whole conversation seems to be predicated on the idea that gay men are 24/7 sex hounds that can't control themselves when in each other's company.
Panache said:I wasn't the aggressor or defender in either case. I was the roommate.
I just hate how this whole conversation seems to be predicated on the idea that humans are 24/7 sex hounds that can't control themselves when in each other's company.
Do you have a camera in my house to know what I was doing at the time
I have not expressed an opinion one way or the other about men and women living together. And gay and straight already live together.
I was saying that if something came up, that would be it. It's a reasonable assumption that you don't get drunk and curious one Saturday night, and that you didn't room with a bunch of girls who were pretty damn ugly. That would be the only way the rules change.
Personally, I can't relate. I've only had one female roommate in my past, and I was screwing her. I don't know the rules on platonomy and co-ed living arrangements.
No I don't, I just saw your name and I don't know what you would be doing here if you were not reading the thread............
I ate a little Mexican shrimp cocktail, talked to the girlfriend and watch my stock purchase from this morn. go up and thought about taking the profit.
There happy now?
Panache beat me to it. I already addressed it. It's not gay men that get that assumption. It's all of us. You're assumed to be trying to get into every man's pants just like I'm assumed to be trying to get into every woman's pants. Sucks being stereotyped like that, huh... :doh
I ate a little Mexican shrimp cocktail, talked to the girlfriend and watch my stock purchase from this morn. go up and thought about taking the profit.
There happy now?
please.......look in the mirror, if you can stand to.Picaro I told you..they attack the messenger...........sad nothing to add to the debate........