I'll remind you - my husband's an SFC, in for close to 20 years and he's pro-life, mirrors your views, really.
Yet I will never be able to understand how military members can remotely be anti-abortion (from the 'killing the innocence' stance that's often presented).
Innocent children and youths are killed amid almost every single military engagement. . . yet the anti-innocent-deaths passion only extend their passionate views in this ONE direction.
Thus - I consider it BS.
If someone truely, deeply and genuinely 100% hardcore felt this 'anti-abortion' 'save the innocent' passion then the Military (Army, Navy, etc) wouldn't even be IN the compass of 'what direction in life should I take?'
I guess the "innocents" only REALLY matter when they're fellow countrymen?