I could go into the psychological reasons why women find it appealing, but do you know what it often comes back to? The fact that society - in general - represses a woman's sexual desires. So, the condemnation and banning of these types of things only adds fuel to the fire. It only feeds the desire, the need, to do them.I guess I'm taking this from more of a male view point, where the appeal to this kind of thing is the notion of power (akin to why its theorized rape usually happens) without the legal stigma's of actual rape. The degradation of the female IS the turn on for the majority that like this style I'd imagine.
And do you have any idea how many women BEG for those 'degrading' things to be done to them? Millions. And I'm not exaggerating. Millions. I'm in the BDSM scene, I frequent forums, BDSM 'dating' sites and the like and there are... Millions. There are 35 million members in one dating site I go to. And, I am considered quite 'vanilla' in the BDSM scene, if that gives you ANY indication at all.
Women express those same regrets during "normal" sex too. All the time.Correct. I'm not determining it. Well, let me take that back. I'm assuming that the majority of them did it for the reasons I theorized about because the majority of the ones that I knew in the grades near me that did the same thing when we were underclassmen generally expressed regrets for it or reasons for it outside of "for sexual pleasure".