2) I didn't say that most gay people wish they weren't gay. I said there are some who wish they were straight - that's undeniable. How they personally deal with those feelings/wishes is personal to them and they should be no more ridiculed for how they deal with their lives than anyone else on the sexual continuum. I don't know of any research that definitively claims what you claim so unless you're either transgender or gay and wish you weren't, you don't have the life experience or genetic/chemical makeup to speak definitively.
3) I'm not confused, nor am I hopelessly uneducated on the subject matter. Your attempt to dismiss my views based on an accusation of ignorance doesn't do you nor anyone else who wishes to bring respect to all humans any favours in the discussion.