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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by Gathomas88 View Post
    Which means exactly jack-crap. As this thread clearly demonstrates, a lot of "sex positive" Liberals have absolutely insane definitions of "safe and healthy" sexual activity.

    "Promiscuous? Did it look like the plot of 'Eyes Wide Shut?' Naaaah... You're good, tiger. Knock yourself out!"
    "absolutely insane definitions of safe and healthy sexual activity"

    Really?

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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by roguenuke View Post
    They sleep around mainly outside of the units, even if occasionally it occurs inside the units, but it isn't always one night stands, hookups. And it isn't that different than what college students do. I would bet that college students are less likely to simply "hook up" than military members. I can find plenty of information that supports my stand on this too.

    One-Night Stands In College: Are We Having Them? | Her Campus

    And while they do happen, despite this, the point of the seminars really wasn't to encourage more one night stands that result in negative emotions or judgements of one or both participants, but rather, almost certainly to change these things. In fact, none of the seminars actually said "one night stands" or simply "hookups".
    Keep in mind that a good deal of that depends on the students own definitions as well. Three, non-exclusive, one night stands with the same person basically qualifies as a "relationship" for some people these days.

    In any case, the bottom line here is that no part of this thing works to accomplish better outcomes for students.

    If these courses actually are selling what they claim to be selling (and I don't care how you try to spin it, that is promiscuity), it is simply going to encourage dangerous and irresponsible behavior, and promote the kinds of unhealthy sexual attitudes which make it more common in the first place.

    If it's a bait and switch, on the other hand, luring students in with the promise of more sex, just to lecture them on how they should wait for relationships instead, no one is going to listen. They'll just keep right on doing what they've always done.

    Frankly, what I suspect that this is really going to be is a "perfect storm" of self-contradictory Left Wing social dogma; combining schizophrenic attitudes towards safe and responsible sex (i.e. promiscuity is fine, but make sure that it's healthy promiscuity), hearty input on the wonders of sexual deviancy from the "sex positive" brigade (Sure! You can masturbate 38 times a day! That's good for you!) , feminist pop-cultural nonsense that complicates the above to Hell and back (sex is great, but you're a rapist if she doesn't say 'yes' exactly X amount of times, and if your BAC is above X level, you're going to jail, and also, porn is demeaning, except when it's not), and maybe some minor tid-bits about putting condoms on bananas that everyone knows already tacked on just to cover the instructors' asses.

    Again, it's simply an example of misplaced progressive priorities all the way around.
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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by Luftwaffe View Post
    "absolutely insane definitions of safe and healthy sexual activity"

    Really?

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    It's basically the right wing belief that we shouldn't teach kids how to cross the street because that will only encourage them to play in traffic
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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by Gathomas88 View Post
    "Sex realist," more likely.

    The basic gist of the opposite position seems to be, "If it feels good, it must be good, so have as much of it as possible."
    Come on, I think you know that no one here thinks that absolutely everything that feels good should be done. Sex can bring both a lot of joy and a lot of pain, and it's important to be responsible about it. However, the hardline Christian position that we should all wait until we're married is the furthest possible thing from realism. We're humans and we were meant to have sex, whether because we were designed that way or it happened by nature.

    I think you just should realize that yes, even though this college did take it a bit too far, talking about these issues in the open and educating young people about the good and the bad of sex is better than avoiding talking about it at all or expecting them to remain abstinent. Education has shown time and time again to be more effective than avoidance and condemnation.

    I mean hell, I lost my faith at 22 years old, but I lost my hardline position on waiting until I was married when I was 15. It's simply unrealistic for most people, faith or not.
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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by sangha View Post
    Of course not!! When what he says is the title of a presentation, it should be believed. Everything else should be ignored.
    I simply happen to know for a fact that the socio-cultural Left has some rather kooky ideas on what constitutes a "safe" and "healthy" sexual relationship.

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    Come on, I think you know that no one here thinks that absolutely everything that feels good should be done. Sex can bring both a lot of joy and a lot of pain, and it's important to be responsible about it. However, the hardline Christian position that we should all wait until we're married is the furthest possible thing from realism. We're humans and we were meant to have sex, whether because we were designed that way or it happened by nature.

    I think you just should realize that yes, even though this college did take it a bit too far, talking about these issues in the open and educating young people about the good and the bad of sex is better than avoiding talking about it at all or expecting them to remain abstinent. Education has shown time and time again to be more effective than avoidance and condemnation.

    I mean hell, I lost my faith at 22 years old, but I lost my hardline position on waiting until I was married when I was 15. It's simply unrealistic for most people, faith or not.
    I'm not a virgin myself, and I don't have any particular problem with sex ed in general principle.

    Hell! The first thing my father asked me when I told him that I had gotten "laid" was whether I had used a condom or not, and followed it up with "Well, I don't approve, but at least you weren't an idiot about it."

    What I do have a problem with, however, is the fact that none of what the university is offering here is actually "sex ed." To the contrary, it is basically full-on indoctrination into a particular sex and promiscuity focused lifestyle that the political Left happens to support on an ideological basis.

    It is, in short, an excuse for a bunch of "sex positive" freaks and perverts to preach to the student body for a couple of days. It doesn't have a thing to do with "safe sex" in anything but the most auxiliary regard, nor does it involve "healthy relationships" as any but the most depraved individuals would define the term.

    Frankly, even if that ultimately turns out to be false-advertising (which I doubt, given the fact that they have entire classes devoted to specific sexual techniques like oral sex), it doesn't change the fact that the school's entire approach to the subject is fundamentally wrong from square one on forward. There are simply better ways to teach responsible behavior.
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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by Gathomas88 View Post
    I simply happen to know for a fact that the socio-cultural Left has some rather kooky ideas on what constitutes a "safe" and "healthy" sexual relationship.
    Yes, like how putting an aspirin between the female's legs will protect pregnancy.

    Oh, wait!!
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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by sangha View Post
    Yes, like how putting an aspirin between the female's legs will protect pregnancy.

    Oh, wait!!
    And who here suggested that, exactly?

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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by Gathomas88 View Post
    And who here suggested that, exactly?
    The right wing.
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    Re: Public University’s Sex Week Includes ‘Negotiating Successful Threesomes’ Event

    Quote Originally Posted by Erod View Post
    The physical act of sex should NEVER be taught in ANY school or university - to make matters worse I think these kids have a good idea bout sex, its meaning and how it is performed - it doesn't need to be performed as an assignment and especially a class assignment....

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