I find it just as troublesome to read that a 15 year old black kid was "against all whites".
I find is disheartening, but I hardly find it as something to be as bothered by, or worthy of discussion, nealry 40 years later as what happened with Sterling or Deen...which is what the person I was responding to was suggesting.
If some famous 15 year old in the public eye came out
TODAY and said he was "against all whites" then yeah...I'd say that would deserve attention and similar public concern (but probably a different reaction, as it is still the difference between a kid and a well into their life adult) as the Sterling or Deen situations. But this is a "troublesome" issue from nearly 4 decades ago that by all accounts is not something even remotely on going in the individuals life.
Unless white people were doing things that harmed him, it's a very bad way to think.
It is a bad way to think; though admittedly a slightly more understandable one in my mind growing up in the south, just a few decades removed from the civil rights movement, given some of the reported stories regarding the treatment of his grandfather he was seeing. However, that's kind of the POINT of it being included in the book and why Michael said the line from what I've read. It's in the book and brought up because it's part of explaining how his parents tried to teach him you can't judge a group of people based on the actions that completely seperate individuals did in the past. To my understanding, the quote from Jordan was stated specifically to indicate that it WAS a bad way to think...and that thankfully his parents helped him grow and move past that.
That's
FAR different than the revelation of Deen saying "nigger" multiple times in the past coming out during testimony regarding accusations of racial discrimination, and them coming out right along side her defending her brother for using the word at their place of business.
That's
FAR different than the revelation of Sterling declaring he doesn't want his mistress bringing black people to his games stated in the past few weeks, building off of mounds of questionable actions over just this past decade alone.
Thus why it's not crazy that somehow Michael Jordan and this story isn't getting the exact same kind of coverage or attention as the other cases.
You know what? It didn't bother me.
And that's wonderful for you. Then again, we're not all robots and different people are bothered or affected by different things. There are some women who are raped and who, mentally, can move past it somewhat quickly. There are other women who are raped and may never fully move past it mentally. Obviously, we should scorn those later ones becuase it affects some women differently so clearly it's just in the heads of the other women. The reality is that everyones situations, and everyones reactions to certain situations, and how those situations affect them, are going to differ person to person. It's perfectly reasonable to say "I don't let that **** affect me" and perhaps at times even commendable; but it doesn't magically mean that's the case, or should be the case, for everyone in every situation that's even remotely similar in some way shape or form.