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    Quote Originally Posted by brothern View Post
    ... none of your comments are accurate portrayals of rape.

    Many women tend to freeze up in terror when being raped. They do not scream or cry for help not only because they are panicked beyond the capacity to think, but also because they are terrified that resisting will cause the attacker to physically harm them even more. The victim is thinking that if they scream or squirm, the attacker will start clawing or punching and perhaps kill them. So in this situation -- a woman standing straight up against the wall might actually be her illogical and panicked way of attempting to stop it.

    It's the same for other life-threatening or dangerous situations. Drowning people don't call for help. Neither do choking victims or people having heart attacks. Those who are drowning or choking are more preoccupied with staying alive than calling for help or looking distressed. People having heart attacks usually pretend to be okay (... they are embarrassed or don't want to see distressed) and will sometimes even excuse themselves to the bathroom, where they fall unconscious and die. Muggings too. People being mugged are afraid of being killed or hurt, and thus do the exact opposite of trying to draw attention.

    Fact is that the vast majority of people are unable to keep calm during these types of events. Rationally you'd think that they (or even you) would do the smart thing and call for help, but doesn't usually happen. Fear completely takes over.
    Oh please, I'm so sick of the "women are too frail for reality" bull****. We want equality, then f'ing start acting equal. Don't be asking for people to having f'ing ESP regarding your sexual desires or lack thereof.
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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

    Her story sounds very suspicious. If she was being raped, why didn't she yell for help from the ten people standing around taking pictures? Why did the woman only report it as rape once the pictures hit the internet?

    I suspect this is just a case of the woman making a poor decision, and trying to avoid responsibility for it by saying it was rape.
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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

    Quote Originally Posted by Summerwind View Post
    Oh please, I'm so sick of the "women are too frail for reality" bull****. We want equality, then f'ing start acting equal. Don't be asking for people to having f'ing ESP regarding your sexual desires or lack thereof.
    I'm not arguing that at all, because I don't agree with it.

    What I'm telling you is that people tend to react in the EXACT OPPOSITE way that you believe/stated they would react. You brain and body will actively seek to betray your own safety in such situations and unless you are a very exceptionally level-headed person, you will probably not do the right thing--Call for help.

    Quote Originally Posted by OscarB63 View Post
    and again, given what is visible in the photos and the fact that she posed for pictures with her "attacker" after the fact, it is highly unlikely she was "frozen with terror".
    I don't know what the "truth" of the situation was. And I'm not going to guess. I'm commenting on the fact that you expressed belief that people under duress seek help or actively resist, which is not true.

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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

    Quote Originally Posted by brothern View Post


    I don't know what the "truth" of the situation was. And I'm not going to guess. I'm commenting on the fact that you expressed belief that people under duress seek help or actively resist, which is not true.
    dude, I've been in the military for 29 years. I've been a school teacher and a cop. I have seen hundreds of people under extreme duress seek help and/or actively resist.
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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

    Quote Originally Posted by brothern View Post
    Many women tend to freeze up in terror when being raped. They do not scream or cry for help not only because they are panicked beyond the capacity to think, but also because they are terrified that resisting will cause the attacker to physically harm them even more. The victim is thinking that if they scream or squirm, the attacker will start clawing or punching and perhaps kill them. So in this situation -- a woman standing straight up against the wall might actually be her illogical and panicked way of attempting to stop it.
    While this may or may not be true, a woman who was 'frozen in terror' would look a lot different than a woman who was relaxed and enjoying herself. There are lots of pictures of it happening, in none of them does she look 'frozen in terror'.
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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

    Quote Originally Posted by OscarB63 View Post
    dude, I've been in the military for 29 years. I've been a school teacher and a cop. I have seen hundreds of people under extreme duress seek help and/or actively resist.
    ... and I have too. But I have seen just as many people not react as I have seen people react. Someone acting strange and quiet can be a signal for help just as much as actually screaming help.

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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

    Quote Originally Posted by brothern View Post
    ... none of your comments are accurate portrayals of rape.

    Many women tend to freeze up in terror when being raped. They do not scream or cry for help not only because they are panicked beyond the capacity to think, but also because they are terrified that resisting will cause the attacker to physically harm them even more. The victim is thinking that if they scream or squirm, the attacker will start clawing or punching and perhaps kill them. So in this situation -- a woman standing straight up against the wall might actually be her illogical and panicked way of attempting to stop it.

    It's the same for other life-threatening or dangerous situations. Drowning people don't call for help. Neither do choking victims or people having heart attacks. Those who are drowning or choking are more preoccupied with staying alive than calling for help or looking distressed. People having heart attacks usually pretend to be okay (... they are embarrassed or don't want to see distressed) and will sometimes even excuse themselves to the bathroom, where they fall unconscious and die. Muggings too. People being mugged are afraid of being killed or hurt, and thus do the exact opposite of trying to draw attention.

    Fact is that the vast majority of people are unable to keep calm during these types of events. Rationally you'd think that they (or even you) would do the smart thing and call for help, but doesn't usually happen. Fear completely takes over.
    BTW, I just want you to know that had you typed, some people freeze ... instead of many women .... as though women are the frailer than men and need more coddling, I would've let it go. I do understand that people can freeze up, though this woman's body language doesn't support that theory.
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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

    We need more pics..


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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

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    We need more pics..


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    agreed. in the interest of making an informed decision....


    sup Tim. how 'bout them CHIEFS!!!!!!!! I had high hopes for the Bills when the season started but it looks like they are back to business as usual. sorry bro.
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    Re: Photo of couple engaging in public sex act actually picture of rape, female stude

    Quote Originally Posted by OscarB63 View Post
    agreed. in the interest of making an informed decision....


    sup Tim. how 'bout them CHIEFS!!!!!!!! I had high hopes for the Bills when the season started but it looks like they are back to business as usual. sorry bro.
    Hey dude I've been in total support of you over at the port, and you have the Gaul to diss my Bills. LOL Ok so maybe deserved somewhat, although I will say this. The BUffalo Bills are the best 2 - 4 team in the NFL. They're getting healthy (Except at QB) and we squish the fish this Sunday, count on it.

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