The US government is not based upon referendums, it's based upon electing people and then having those people make decisions. Which word in that sentence do you not get? I have a few minutes, maybe I can help.
Probably, saying you don't get it is an arguing tactics, but maybe it's not. Either way, it'll be helpful to walk you through this, either to assist you in learning or to show you're just being obtuse. Lemme know.