Quit trying to dodge the fact that your daughter and her partner can not create a child together.
So freaking what if they can't?Doesn't bother me or her mother.
What does that have ANYTHING to do with YOU?
Sorry if I don't share your obsession with who is procreating with who. That's kind of creepy on your part..
My daughter and her lover may not be able to create a child together, but they sure can raise a child together.
And I think that's more important.
And my grandchildren will receive nothing but love and support from the entire family.
And sorry, but I have to take your confidence with a grain of salt, given that you're talking about your daughter.
You can take it with a cup of milk and a plate of cookies as an enema,for all I care.I know my daughter way better than you do.
I know she's going to be a great parent.
The infertile couples are the ones who should adopt, because the child isn't going to notice a difference.
And you know this how?
How many kids have you adopted?
Heterosexual couples who don't plan on kids are still most likely to have sex and have a safety net for that unplanned child many have. Your daughter is not going to have an accidental child with her lesbian lover.
Once more,so freaking what.She can have a child from a turkey baster for all me and her mom care.You're the one with the procreation obsession,not us.
Me and my wife are just happy having grandchildren.
Your adopted grandchild is going to continually wonder why they have two moms and no dad, likely teased for it too.
And you know this how?
Are you some kind of psychic?
Are you looking at a crystal ball?
Can you contact the spirits and tell me which stocks to pick next month?
Again,so freaking what?
How my daughter gives us the grand child doesn't matter to me and my wife (and I'm wondering why does it matter to you? You didn't raise my daughter,and you don't have to take care of my grandchild.)
Wondering why my grandchild has two mommies is something my daughter and the rest of the family are going to have to deal with.
But we will deal with it with love,honesty and understanding.
Oh no's.My grand child may get teased.
Teased by people just like you.Oh well.
If my daughter could survive growing up being teased because she was interracial,(and gay),I think grandchild can survive being teased because she has two mommies.
If it isn't having two mommys,it'll be because he or she is fat,or skinny,or smart,or wears glasses,or is dark,or has red hair,or is short,or is tall.......people will always find a reason to pick on and tease those that are different.
But hey,I was teased growing up because I was the only dark skin child in a working class Irish/Italian neighborhood.
I survived it,and it made stronger.
I learned how to defend myself.
And then the teasing stopped.
My grandchild is going to learn how to defend his or herself,just like granddad did,just like grandma did,and just like all my daughters did.
So your while your concern for my grandchild is touching,I think the Verthaine family can handle it.
The relationship my wife and I have puts others to shame.
Good for you.So does my wife and I.
But me and my wife aren't the ones worried about how SSM will degrade and devalue OUR marriage.
By the way,do you even have a horse in this race?
Because me and my wife does.
Our gay daughter.
Answer this question. If everyone gets to add what they want to the meaning of marriage, what is it going to mean in the end?
Here's my answer.
I don't give a crap about what other people do unless it involve ordering food from my resturants,hiring my caterers,or renting my banguet halls
I don't stick my nose in other peoples business (unlike some people on this forum....).
Me and my wife define what our marriage is for ourselves.
Not you or anyone else.
And I want the same right for all my daughters.
Whether you like it or not.
