re: State to Eliminate “Bride” & “Groom” on Marriage Certificates [W:303]
You think I oppose it to make gays unhappy?
Yeah, it seems to bug you that you cannot push them back into the closet. It is obvious you are ticked off, and over such a pointless thing.
My family values the traditional gender roles.
What tradition? Oh yeah, there are no traditional gender roles. There are those who wish to keep old gender roles because they like slave like women, but aside from that today the gender roles are all over the place so tradition was gone a long time ago and now people who subjugate their wives and daughters are the freaks.
I believe this is one reason our family is so strong in this society where divorce has risen over time.
Yes, because women are strongest when they stay with abusive and overbearing husbands due to some notion they might go to hell made up by people who thought their savior was a zombie made of crackers and cheep wine. Sorry, but you get your supposed strength from a book of fiction written by some greedy men trying to cash in on the jew craze way back in history. Sorry, but that is not everyone's tradition, and though it is yours you are not allowed to force everyone into your little world of make believe. You want to pretend you are going to heaven to be with jesus because you call yourself husband and wife that is great, but go do that on your own. I am not here to make you feel better or play a game of pretend with you because you cannot face the world because to dudes get married.
Have the dads ask their daughters whether they dream of being a bride or a "spouse b".
Why don't I ask girls why they seem to only think they are worthy in life if they become a wife? Oh yeah, because you taught your little girls they are only worthwhile when they gt married, and become bare foot and pregnant to their husband. Again, that is great and all, but i am not playing pretend with you. Those little girls can still call themselves wife, no one is actually stopping that. You can still teach your children traditional values of marriage inspired slavery straight from the good book of make believe. The government should accomodate all people because we all do not believe in the biblical fairy tale bull.
It's the expectation of everything to go to one neutral instead of creating a sufficient alternate that infuriates me.
No offense, but i think you missed the meaning of the word gay. gay is not gender neutral. gays actually appreciate the genders, they just appreciate their genders. Gay people do not want androgeny. This is the same thing as thinking gay people are transgendered. your ignorance is showing. Gay guys don't want a wife. So having husband and wife makes no sense in that area. It makes a lot more sense to use the word spouse instead of printing out each combination. BTW spouse is a proper term for either a married woman or man. You are your wife's spouse. That word works just fine and it does apply to you. What is even worse is it has applied to you for all your life and you have never ever had a complaint about using it up until now. This means your complaint is entirely about gays.
It's similar to the atheists I want to kick the crap out of for expecting crosses to not be in public view or the stupid "holiday tree" controversy.
you are a violent hateful guy aren't you? The sort of person who hears happy holidays and wants to punch someone despite it being a well wishing term. Again, that is nice and all, but if different people bother you and freedom is an enemy of yours then perhaps you are in the wrong place. Anyways, enjoy the world that is changing, and enjoy your meltdown, but gays and gay marriage are the way of the future and it is not going away even if you punch someone. Do remember when you die and if you meet jesus to let him know how the supposed guy who claimed unconditional love, acceptance, and compassion inspired you to want to punch people. now go find your spouse and have a happy holidays with your holiday tree and remember Santa doesn't like people like you, and he is the king of christmas.
